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Re: You have posed a very good arguement
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Hello To you Philadelphia Gentlemen !!  
It's a Pleasure reading your board !
I  am a Provider from Milwaukee, Wi & I feel the need to tell you gentlemen that here in MKE, there is an "activity" such as referred in this thread.  
I hear both good & bad things about this but have experienced nothing but pleasant connections ..  
Some girlfriends I have will tell me that one guy went way over the request & even went over the time & once she asked for what she rightfully was owed, he basically "stiffed" her but not in a good way !
Now on the other hand, personally, I provide this experience when requested & have came to appreciate the need, request & understanding of what is being asked of me..  
Every person has their own preference's, standards, desires, dis-like & likes & lastly limits. I would like to consider myself a Reputable Provider with standards & requirements for different activities BCD & am always reasonable with what I think is fair for both parties involved.  
Than, there are those woman who ask for a flat fee for the time spent vs the activities being tested out !! Which is also fine. Every Provider runs her business the way she does. The true hobbyist understands this & never negotiates for there are way to many "fishes in the sea" :)
I like this thread because it can go & be taken either positive or negative . Depending on the person & their view on things !
To each is own !

Thanks Phili Men !!

Xo

Lynn Fairview
 
Posted By: cummingslane
Its always about finding the right person to match your desires. I had to agree with your statement  
   
 "If a lady charges 300-350 for FS, they usually add an extra 100 for Greek (i.e. an extra service).  So, I'm wondering if ladies would be willing to see clients at @200 for a "reduced" service (i.e less than FS).  Yes, I can always see any lady and at the appointment request only HJ/Russian.  But, I can't rationalize 300 for such.  I know some might say you are paying for time.  They might say: "an hour of my time is an hour of my time".  But then I would ask why is Greek extra if it's within the same hour?  If the response is it's extra service, well than less service should be a lower amount, correct??"  
   
 But the reason why it will be hard for you to find someone is because someone before you was given the same opportunity but probably more than likely overstepped the agreement/boundaries or started asking for less and less which is why most providers stay away from situations like this.  
   
 My .02cents  
   
 

I am interested in "Private Viewing" any ladies out there interested in adding this to your repetoire?  

If you are not familiar, "Private viewing" is kind of like halfway between private lap dance in the VIP room and FS.  There is a place down in Tyson's area near DC that specializes in such.  For someone interested in more than a VIP lap dance but not willing to take the risk of FS, it is an IDEAL compromise.  Usually, mutual touching (not allowed in the clubs) and a little oiled HJ/Russian happy ending ...rather safe - you know =).  That way I leave happy, but can sleep at night and not worry about the next blood test !LOL!!  Usually the price is 150-200 depending on HHR or Full HR.  

If a lady charges 300-350 for FS, they usually add an extra 100 for Greek (i.e. an extra service).  So, I'm wondering if ladies would be willing to see clients at @200 for a "reduced" service (i.e less than FS).  Yes, I can always see any lady and at the appointment request only HJ/Russian.  But, I can't rationalize 300 for such.  I know some might say you are paying for time.  They might say: "an hour of my time is an hour of my time".  But then I would ask why is Greek extra if it's within the same hour?  If the response is it's extra service, well than less service should be a lower amount, correct??

It seems as though no one is "in tune" with this service up here.  I have been to the place in Tyson's several times and it is IDEAL for my needs - more than a VIP lap dance but no worries associated with FS (even covered has risks).   I just wish there was a place around here and/or ladies that would provide it.  When I have asked ladies, the response has been: "I don't negotiate my rates" ...but they are missing the point - I'm not trying to negotiate - just trying to find something in between.  Ladies seem to be of the "all or none" mindset.  

I'm thinking ladies might want to offer this to gain a whole new client base.  I mean, heck if I was a lady I would think it's an easy appointment with much less risk?  Ya know, it may even reduce NCNS.  Probably  a lot of NCNS are guys that get cold feet, second thoughts about safety, guilt, etc.  In my mind (however shallow that is !LOL!)  this carries none of that and I would think clients would be less likely to get cold feet and back out at the last minute and NCNS.    

any takers?
your thoughts

I worked for a private viewing company for a few years!! I know what you need!!! I am visiting Cherry Hill nj and KOP -I also will be visiting Philly and other locations in PA in August!!

Hi Sidney,

Yes, I know.  ...YOU "get it" =).    

In fact, you were one of the ladies I saw at Blue Gems when I first started hobbying - oh about 11 years ago!?!   I still get to Blue Gems on my annual DC conference trip and it's still great.  

I'll watch your schedule and I'll be in touch

"than less service should be a lower amount, correct??"

If you go to a restaurant and order the chicken Caeser salad and ask for no chicken, just the salad and dressing, do you think they'll take a few dollars off of your meal?  If they only have a chicken Caeser salad and not a plain one on that menu then they won't.  You should go to a restaurant that already offers what you are looking for at the price you want to pay. Maybe check out a restaurant's on line menu or YEep reviews before dining there.  What about if you get a sundae with whipped creme?  Don't force your weak argument on the ladies here.  

If someone is already offering what you want at the price you want to pay, then go be her customer.  Like that place in Tyson's Corner.  GO THERE.  Or put your request out there like: "here's what I want and here's what I want to pay." You are putting a business plan for ladies out there (a lame one, at taht) and expecting some of us to change our business plan for you.   No one likes to be told what to do by someone who doesn't understand the services we provide.  YOU ARE A CUSTOMER.  You know nothing about the experience of a service provider, even if you've seen lots of providers and think you do.  You absolutely need to be on this end to understand it.  

As for the Greek part of your argument, again, you don't understand the preparation that goes into it. It's extra because it is extra preparation and it is something that not all ladies provide.  They deserve extra compensation for it and the market has shown that they can get it.  Providing less doesn't require any less preparation.  We still have to get dolled up and clean up your messy fluids up when you're done and in some cases we work even harder to please you.  The guys with new models for business like you are always the hardest clients to please and we dread seeing you.  

Your discussion of "less risk" again is coming from a customer's point of view.  You should be a provider for a short time and see what it's like before you assume you understand and know that it's an "easy appointment."  You have no idea what is easy or hard so don't tell us what you would think if you were a lady.  You're not a lady and never will be.  Providing is both a physical and mental service.  And the best ladies provide both in a balanced and excellent manner.

I can tell from the way you write the mentally you are more work than the average client.  Luckily I'm not your type or in your price range that you would never bother with me but I would probably charge you extra or require a 90 minute appointment if you contacted me with a request written like this.  Why?  Because of the extra mental preparation you would require.  I would feel drained after dealing with you and it would affect me negatively.  

When I was touring out in Pittsburgh a few years ago another well-reviewed provider I requested a reference from warned me that "private viewing" was code for "cheap bastard."  She said "be prepared to drop your price if a guy uses that term when contacting you."  There seems to be a lot of ladies who offer that out there.  Maybe check out the scene in Pittsburgh.

Posted By: JoeSchlump
I am interested in "Private Viewing" any ladies out there interested in adding this to your repetoire?    
   
 If you are not familiar, "Private viewing" is kind of like halfway between private lap dance in the VIP room and FS.  There is a place down in Tyson's area near DC that specializes in such.  For someone interested in more than a VIP lap dance but not willing to take the risk of FS, it is an IDEAL compromise.  Usually, mutual touching (not allowed in the clubs) and a little oiled HJ/Russian happy ending ...rather safe - you know =).  That way I leave happy, but can sleep at night and not worry about the next blood test !LOL!!  Usually the price is 150-200 depending on HHR or Full HR.    
   
 If a lady charges 300-350 for FS, they usually add an extra 100 for Greek (i.e. an extra service).  So, I'm wondering if ladies would be willing to see clients at @200 for a "reduced" service (i.e less than FS).  Yes, I can always see any lady and at the appointment request only HJ/Russian.  But, I can't rationalize 300 for such.  I know some might say you are paying for time.  They might say: "an hour of my time is an hour of my time".  But then I would ask why is Greek extra if it's within the same hour?  If the response is it's extra service, well than less service should be a lower amount, correct??  
   
 It seems as though no one is "in tune" with this service up here.  I have been to the place in Tyson's several times and it is IDEAL for my needs - more than a VIP lap dance but no worries associated with FS (even covered has risks).   I just wish there was a place around here and/or ladies that would provide it.  When I have asked ladies, the response has been: "I don't negotiate my rates" ...but they are missing the point - I'm not trying to negotiate - just trying to find something in between.  Ladies seem to be of the "all or none" mindset.    
   
 I'm thinking ladies might want to offer this to gain a whole new client base.  I mean, heck if I was a lady I would think it's an easy appointment with much less risk?  Ya know, it may even reduce NCNS.  Probably  a lot of NCNS are guys that get cold feet, second thoughts about safety, guilt, etc.  In my mind (however shallow that is !LOL!)  this carries none of that and I would think clients would be less likely to get cold feet and back out at the last minute and NCNS.    
   
 any takers?  
 your thoughts?  
 

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