Use Max Fisch. Research postings on subjects and reviews that interest you. Pay attention to the dynamics of sessions, the range is wide and very important.
When it comes to a Dommes web site: study her "interest" section, before you click on the "gallery." Again, pay attention to the tone of the power dynamics the Domme may prefer and determine if they match yours. Honest communication with the Domme in an email. Be upfront and tastefully expose yourself to the core. Given the response, you be the judge. Enjoy your first.I realize this question has probably been asked a million times before, but I couldn't find a clean answer.
I'm new to BDSM. I don't know what I like and don't like, and I have a pretty open mind. How should I direct a BDSM escort for our first time together? I know I want FS, but no idea what else. I'd actually like her to try a few things out and see if it works with me.
What should I tell her?
The majority will not that is why you have to do your own homework. I would surf the internet to see what arouses you 1st, so you have a few items you wish to explore. Do not expect her to help you experience lots in a short 1hr session. Mild to wild? You should have a few fantasies, or fetishes that interest you proir to playtime. For example: Foot fetish fun, golden showers, bondage, tease & denial, humiliation, just to name a few, but be clear FS escort is on the providers menu.
Have fun!
Like the OP, I am interested in exploring BDSM, but unsure how to get started. Kudos to you, Madame Patricia and others that answer these types of questions and contribute here.
Where do I check All of the above?
Use Max Fisch. Research postings on subjects and reviews that interest you. Pay attention to the dynamics of sessions, the range is wide and very important.
When it comes to a Dommes web site: study her "interest" section, before you click on the "gallery." Again, pay attention to the tone of the power dynamics the Domme may prefer and determine if they match yours.
Honest communication with the Domme in an email. Be upfront and tastefully expose yourself to the core. Given the response, you be the judge.
Enjoy your first.
I don't think Max Fisch is the best place for him to find a domme who also offers FS. You'll generally have to look for an escort who specializes in BDSM/Fetish activities. Slixa.com offers a verification service concerning BDSM experience, so that may be a great place to start as well. You may also want to seek out someone who offers kink-fueled massage without it being a full BDSM session. There are lots of options for you if FS isn't part of the deal, but if FS is a must, your best bet would be to find an escort who specializes in kink.
Good luck to you!
simply went through a bdsm checklist with me.
We would do as many things as we could explore well in two hours. Then the next time we continued the list.
My playlist of activities I found I liked grew about 4 fold just by exploration.
It is very hard to tell what you like or don't in bdsm because your mind may say "ouuuuu, gross" but your body gets turned on.
To make it more erotic, you might just want to pick 5 or six things and let the Top figure out how to organize the play to build to a climax.
Have fun!
~An
