She has not costed me any business. My reviews give me all the business I need. If she is costing me any business, than that would be whomever a loss who would use that as an excuse to not see someone.
I told her a long time ago to not mention my name. I don't have control over another human being.I am the one who posted the review of Peggy. I am new to the hobby, but I know about acting professional regardless of the chosen profession. I stand by my review. I respond under wonderboy69, I do not use any alias. Peggy's personality and mine did not click. Could she have handled the situation better? Sure, and so could I have. Many guys here have had good experiences with her. I did not. It happens. I don't like it, but that's life. As to you Peggy, go ahead and rip me to shreds here and now for all to see. I am not afraid of you or any of your friends. This is my last post on the Peggy Phelps experience. For those of you trying to use my review for an example, please stop. It was only for informative purposes, not to throw gasoline on a bad situation. Good bye.
I had some idle time this morning and have learned exactly how somebody I use to know (or shall I say; never really knew at all) became so consumed by discussion boards on various sites, like many others. It is very consuming, especially time wise. I have a very busy and fulfilling life outside of the hobby, so I never really got too involved in reading through the posts on this board and probably shouldn't have (I was glued to it reading from 9am to 10 and have been back and forth with it since. What an obsession!!!).
I was reading something about another provider, which by the way, I am not the mentor or advocate of. I met her in my previous line of work (which included escorting), and we became acquaintances, and somewhat friends. I introduced her to TER and showed her how it works... other than that I have in no way guided her or any of her choices, nor will I.
While reading the start of a thread posted after another thread that she began, I read something from a hobbyist that was definitely referring to me. I must clarify that although I use to request no review from clients based on their review history and/or their experience in the hobby, that I no longer do that, and my last 8 reviews are testimony of that. Also, once again, I must clarify that I have never demanded any score, nor manipulated anyone's final evaluation of my service or their subjective view of my appearance.
If I am on anyone's "do not see" list, I guess it's my loss due to one past decision, that I have recently rectified. Hopefully you guys can forgive me.
As for bashing providers and continuously posting about your experience with that provider, I have to ask how old are you? Let bygone's be bygone's. The review says enough. Those of us who understand the hobby and the importance of service, will be able to get all we need by the review alone. It seems a bit immature to me to continuously harp on something relentlessly. you made your point, now move on!
Hopefully like myself, people learn from their mistakes and try never to repeat them. I have been escorting for a lot of years and take pride in my work and constantly try to learn new and better ways to convey that to others in the hobby. We should all work together, not against each other... some of us still have a lot to learn and the best teacher is experience, because if you're anything like me you need to bump your head a few times before you learn to duck. Unfortunately, I don't do well with others telling me what or how to do anything. I have to learn for myself.
Cheers to everyone... and please lets start happy topics from this point on!!
I just think going on about something for three weeks is a bit excessive. Honestly, I'm just getting sick of various hobbyists pm'ing me asking me to take her under my wing. She is not my job ,nor are we as close as we once were. I still care about the girl, but a I said... Let her learn from her own choices. She'll get the hang of it. She doesn't need anyone telling her how to do this.
Worth the wait! A real 10, 10 ... And as you can read, very bright and astute. No nonsense type person. Just perfect in many ways.
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Then you should not share an in all with her and you should tell her to stop using you as a reference. She uses your name during the session and while making appointments. She states that you will whitelist people for her since she doesn't have the ability to get her VIP status paid on TER. She talks about you two being best friends. If you want people to leave this alone I think it starts with you setting her straight about not using your name and abusing your friendship. Honestly, she is costing you business!
She has not costed me any business. My reviews give me all the business I need. If she is costing me any business, than that would be whomever a loss who would use that as an excuse to not see someone.
I told her a long time ago to not mention my name. I don't have control over another human being.
I don't want to bash anyone. I just have several points.
1. Come to a session prepared. If you are the service provider, come prepared to preform that service. As an escort yo should have condoms just like as a client I should have your donation.
2. If you ask for the donation, start the session, depart because you forgot condoms and never return you should expect to be talked about. We don't have a way to blacklist you like the ladies would a client that might hit one of you or NCNS so we have aright to post about it and not just forget about it. It doesn't matter if it is $200 or $2000 we work hard for it and we don't deserve to have it stolen from us.
3. If you promise a service and then don't provide it you should remove from the list of services offered on your TER profile. You have that option. Yes, the first reviewer said those things about you but after that if your services change it is your responsibility to update them especially when you direct people to TER to see your reviews.
4. Don't offer to have other reviewers do something for you. If you don't have the ability to whitelist someone don't tell a client you are going to have a friend whitelist them.
5. Don't tell someone you have to leave a session and offer to comp them a free session and then intentionally never respond to them. If you do that you should expect to get bashed. If you offer something provide it. Taking our money and not doing your job is no different than a client shorting you in the envelope accept you at least got something out of it.
In the end letting fellow reviewer know about a lady that has a history of lying, stealing, and giving a shitty service is our responsibility and in my opinion TER should have an area where we as reviewers can Blacklist escorts that have these practices. Hell, I'd pay to have access to that info. It would save me, anger, frustration and cash!
I'm sorry, but I honestly am tired of clients pm'ing me about her, that is why it is getting old to me. Everytime her name is mentioned on a discussion board, somehow I get thrown into the mix; either being brought up in the same post or by having guys pm me about her. I really hope that you were not referring to me at all in that post. I know Peggy did the same thing to you, because you pm'ed me about it. I will not whitelist anyone that I haven't seen. The funny thing is, you had nothing bad to say about her until I made you aware of that. Suddenly, you are chiming in on a discussion that gives you an opportunity to try and make someone look bad. I realize she has a lot to learn, and I'm sure everyone else does as well... But, I request that from this point on, that NOBODY includes me in their posts about her. I have nothing to do with her services and as for "yeathatguy"; you never met her or I, yet you have a sick vendetta for us both (as it is obvious in your posts), come on!!!... It makes no sense. I take it you must resent her and I for something?
All I'm saying is she said your two are best friends and that you do this for her all the time. I didn't make her look bad. Her actions make her look bad.
If she lies, cheats and steals we have a right to say it.
I agree, she should not have made a offer for you to do something.
I'm tired of seeing your name mixed with hers too.
I'm also tired of hearing how she steals from reviewers.
If TER had a blacklist board where we as reviewers could list ladies that rip off us reviewers her name would be there and i hope it would help out fellow reviewers.
She should be banned from TER.
That is what the reviews are for... Why would you need an extra board for a list? A provider recieving a 1 or a 2 in performance should be a clear indication of that. Same as a blacklist.
If she lies, cheats and steals we have a right to say it.
I agree, she should not have made a offer for you to do something.
I'm tired of seeing your name mixed with hers too.
I'm also tired of hearing how she steals from reviewers.
If TER had a blacklist board where we as reviewers could list ladies that rip off us reviewers her name would be there and i hope it would help out fellow reviewers.
She should be banned from TER.
Then why do you ladies need one for guys if you do proper verification? It's the same logic. We all know that a review gets moved down the line fairly fast.
Not arguing with you. I just think a place for us reviewers to list ladies that are dishonest isn't a bad idea. I can't review a lady that NCNS on me. That is just one of several reasons a Blacklist isn't a bad idea for reviewers to have to hold escorts accountable.