They tell us exactly what they are providing, for how much and how long. For example, my name is super pussy I provide BBBJTC, GREEK, DFK, DATY and ASIAN for $1 an hour. Let's weed out all of the scammers, bait and switch agencies and make it a real board with the real info you need to satisfy whatever perversion you may have. Or we could have another discussion board called the NO BS NY discussion board!
..I couldn't agree more with you. After trying in vain to meet up with several women (mostly EROS) I just gave up. If I ask a question-it's like I'm being rude. A few snotty remarks by the ladies and I'm telling them perhaps another time. How can I have a good time with someone that I don't even like over the phone? If they don't like what they do for a living, get another job or be a straight shooter. When girls become scam artists they only make it harder for the legit providers.
I suggest we all just keep posting about our experiences. TER has provided a way for us to do detailed research we all should take advantage of this.
For example: I wanted to spend time with SHELLY from LOLLYDOLLS. A review just came up of one of their girls and it was just awful. So LOLLYDOLLS will not get a call from me. But I'm sure my local girl will.
Most of these women think they are doing us a favor when we are putting clothes on their back and food in their mouths. Just be grateful and FUCK us they way we want, we can all have a woman with a nasty attitude for free.
I understand why you would be angry if you can't get answers to your questions. But you also have to understand that most providers get dozens of calls a week where callers ask explicit questions regarding service, and you can hear the hand & lotion action in the background. Also LE are quite saavy. They call from what looks like valid numbers on the caller ID and ask questions like do you offer full service? do you do greek? those words can be held against you in a court of law. I think the problem with that kind of information being posted online is no one knows for sure how the internet effects laws for this sector of the adult industry, as to why TER does not display explicit portions of reviews for the general public. But TER is a useful medium since you can get answers to your questions by reading the FULL reviews. Paying a few bucks for membership will save you time and money, as well as a lot frustration in the long run.
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I'm headed to the City soon and have been "searching" for the right type. I'm so jaded that if I don't see a review, here on TER, for a provider listed in eros I won't risk it. Too many freeking rip-off artistas 
However, the term GFE should mean something. As the definition will differ from guy to guy and lady to lady, there should be some standard set. If I set up a date with someone who claims she's GFE, I would expect her to DFK and BBBJ.
I can't remember a time that a girlfriend went to blow me and stopped to break out a condom.
But note, it is all in the reviews!! I always have respect for the Hobbyist that has posted the first legitimate review of a provider.
Fortitude, if your reading this, please repost the pillars of GFE'ism again. If for nothing else, it provides for a great discussion.
I have edited it, just slightly for the purposes of this post. I just removed references to other members posting to the original thread. Her goes:
The 3 pillars that GFE rests upon, Tangible and Physical, in my book, are DFK, DATY and BBBJ (TC, NQNS, etc. optional for me). For a provider to be GFE she must provide these 3 services. The intangible part, and this is as important, or more, is attitude and personality. After all, the largest sex organ we possess are our brains! She needs to make me feel that for that period of time we are together, she is there only for me, and her mind is in the room with us. We can talk about anything, fool around playfully, intellectually, physically, or any other way. We have to meet on a common intellectual level, whether that means she coming down to my level or me coming down to hers (I have met many providers who are a lot smarter than I am). And if we have "dated" more than 1 or 2 times over a relatively short period of time, then there should be a process of non-verbal communication, ie- we don't have to discuss rules. She should have the ability to remember what buttons of mine to push, as I should remember things she may like or dislike. Ideally we have had lunch or dinner and have spent some "vertical" time together as well as "horizontal" time. And we rarely, if ever, discuss other providers or other clients. That period of time we spend together is for us, and us only, as though nobody else exists.
That's my ideal GFE.
I can't believe I left out DATY as one of my requirements for GFE. I must have had "Roman Polanski" on my mind.
I understand old Roman is about to release his new film:
"Close Encounters with the Third Grade"
Happy to oblige with that GFE stuff.
Do you see the link he posted? I don't remember how he filmed me at that angle (LOL).