Would you not then make an announcement or communicate with the guys who are already on your dance card? I think a little communication makes a big difference.
She was going to visit Philly for the several days this and next week. She fished for a little info, then radio silence. She keeps up a presence on the GD board, but otherwise nothing. Anyone know if she blew off the trip?
My personal theory, she's writing a book, gathering stories and data. Once you get a bunch of guys to give little summaries as part of the screening, then a visit is superfluous. Maybe I'm being paranoid, but she sounds pretty together, not flaky, so I think there is a plan.
I'm considering cancelling my trip (or making it a vacation) for the same reason.
Would you not then make an announcement or communicate with the guys who are already on your dance card? I think a little communication makes a big difference.
Freezing! It's been snowing non-stop. Luckily, my trip isn't until later in the month. Hopefully it'll be all clear by then.
As I mentioned, "radio silence". In initial e mail she expressed an interest in getting to know each other through some conversation. " I am pretty sure I didn't say anything in my first e mail to creep her out, just some basic facts. I followed up to see why she didn't reply, nothing stalkerish. Then . . . nothing.
I am actually genuinely interested in the interaction Cosette offered. While not unique, it is not the most common demographic, and is of interest to me at this stage of my hobby trajectory.
I may try her other e mail address.
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But I'll be there by Saturday.
No, I am not writing a book, but thank you for the confidence that I could possibly write one 