Life is like a box of chocolates...............

For starters it is just disappointing there are dipwads and scumbags and people who seem to thrive on doing random acts of unkindness. Why? All we got is each other and none of us are getting out of this situation alive. Cooperate, be good to each other, DUH!!!!!!!!!!

Really hate there are wonderful women out there busting their tails off and for whatever reason and there are disturbed fellas out there that post stuff about said ladies that do not accurately represent said ladies and their job and  if you will, their performance.

On the flip side there are providers out there that act poorly and demonstrate a deep disturbance with their choice of decisions and actions or inactions. So it goes bothways.

In a perfect world all women would have a full menu, give free appointments or at least buy three get one free and feel a genuine chemistry and the gents would be completely respectful and donate triple and be a dedicated regular, discreetly, right?

That is not what we are dealing with. I have been hobbying for a while now and I have had the greatest experiences, and I have had a couple pretty bad. I have had a provider lie and put my real name on a blacklist that I have no recourse to have removed. Will say in the whole time I have hobbied that is the one and only negative response I have ever gotten so take it for what it is worth. Think it is 9 whitelist approvals and one negative, you do the math.

So I would say for the gals, I know what it feels like to have something posted somewhere about you not true and you can't do anything about it. I feel your pain cause I have had some of my own. It blows.

So what can one do? Just take it with a grain of salt and move on. I have used this site over the years to find my way to the greatest gals on earth. Ok a little over the top but I have said before I consider myself the luckiest guy in the hobby and still feel that way. I have had the pleasure of being allowed to spend time and companionship with a great great great group of women. I have seriously overacheived, trust me. That has happened mostly because I have used this site to narrow down who I would like to see and who I would take a pass on.

Just want the gals to know that pretty much one or two reviews that are different than the others can easily be discounted. There is always for whatever reason something that doesn't quite click. Then there are people who just act poorly but it really says more about them than the words the review is trying to portray.

So just  saying until everyone decides to "man up" and in the case of the women, what, "women up", and act like human beings we are all just going to have to accept we have to take the good with the bad and carry on.

Since this is the situation we find ourselves in we have to look for consistency to help guide our decisions. I guess I should say one way to go about it it to look for consistency to help us.  If a gal has 10 reviews and they are all bad and they dashed with the cash 9 times and one review was stellar......probably ok to put that gal on "the pass" list. If a guy write the same review for different gals then the guys ought to ignore him and the gals might not want to book appointments with him.

One good thing about human beings is over time they will eventually show their true colors. So keep a watchful eye and just avoid the undesirables.

Anyway, time to get on with my day. To all the good folks out there, thanks and for the bad people, hope one day you realize it feels better to treat people with kindness and respect. Mean people and bad behavior SUCKS! Booo....Boooooo!!!!!!!!!!

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!