I think most of the ladies can tell when they are dealing with an honest guy versus dealing with a tool. You also cancelled the day BEFORE...........you didn't wait until an hour before.
Also remember that the guys have cancellations by the ladies too. It's disappointing all the way around, but last minute things happen to the ladies too. Hell, I flew to see a lady that goy my fancy & she had to cancel 2 hours before.............& I still have the hots for her !!! LoL