Does anyone know of any in Ct or boston area? Or any providers willing to help out with some problems? I've searched this board and google but came up with nothing and my doctor not very helpful.
She is connected with the organizations that license surogates and can probably direct you as to where to find one.
Licensed surogates will only see someone who is referred by a licensed health professional, so you will need to see a psychiatrist, psychologist or MD to get that referal.
Otherwise, I would advise a good tantric practicioner as I have found them very helpful with issues. Click the link below of a tantric website that has traveling tantras that come to this area.
There is also a very skillfull tantrica around Boston that I see. PM if you can for that information. She does not want it posted on boards like this.
It's a shame your doctor can't help you, but sexual therapy still has a lot of stigma.
best of luck.