Younger years it was every which way but loose with more physical stimulation. I could go and go and work myself to a frenzy to climax. Now I know it is more a mental trip and the physical stimulation is less of an importance although stimulation still needs to be there.
Instead of going like crazy and wasting energy I know exactly what works and find the softer side of sex with passion works best. Slower CG with grinding instead of bucking bronco is just a glimpse of what I mean. Much more affection and kissing get's me to the edge and heightens my senses which was not the case in my younger years. Now my orgasms take much less time to reach and they are wetter and more intense.