Hello, Everyone:
I was coming up with a list of things that might help both parties, from MY own experiences with my client-friends. Here they are:
Here are reminders/hints which make things run more smoothly:
a)When you leave a voice mail message, please say if I/we may call anytime or if there is a time constraint. I like when clients leave a detailed message, repeat their numbers twice, then say something at the end like "Claudia, if you cannot reach me back by 3pm, do not call". Then, I know not to call.
Sometimes, I don't know if this is his home number, if I should call back 5 hrs later (because I was busy) or not. I hesitate to call back 5 hrs later, but I also hesitate to develop a reputation as someone who doesn't call back. I try to look out for your best interest, you cuties. I've had women answer the phone and I simply ask for a fictitious name and I work it very well, and everything's fine, but I don't like to do that.
b) Please do not "back channel" or publicize explicit address information' to others if INCALL is offered. The girl does not need stalkers who become enamored and get scarey on her. If back-channeling or talking to another girl, just use generalizations: "North PHx", "Tempe", "Mesa" Please just keep details and cross streets or exact addresses hushy-hushy.
c) I keep my mouth shut, just as I mentioned in my original "Please Allow me to Introduce Myself" posting about 10/03. I do not ever, ever do anything with my knowledge (through SCREENING) of where you work or of your home. Please continue to share that same discretion with us. This is a gentle reminder as most of you guys, and especially my clients are so sweet and refined and good guys that it's a pleasure to pamper you. This is a two way street.
d)Because I keep my mouth shut about things, if you tell me you've seen GirlX, I never ask about your session. It's not my business. If I've seen her photos, I'll tell you she looks lovely but I don't ask nor need any more information from ya'.
e) Don't show up early, you over zealous men, unless you advise first. I never mind 10-15 mins early, but 30 mins is a bit much, you rascals. What, are you trying to catch me out of the shower?
Thanks so much for your consideration in this and know that I, and the other ladies do our best to ensure satisfaction and a delightful, warm experience.
Warmly,
Claudia Sunshine
"Spreading Sunshine Throughout the World"
it defeats the purpose! I dont know claudia nor have i seen her but her post raises some questions only she and whoever talked to her know the answer too.
first and foremost backchanneling is for the members of the backchannel. i dont think im even a member of the compromised channel (mine are more fs oriented) but it certainly raised my eyebrows.
It goes back to our forefathers "we must hang together or we shall certainly hang seperately"
happy holidays.
You are so correct Claudia!!! I hate calling back a number only to find a females voice on the other end of the line, I would never compromise someone's privacy. In the same aspect you should never compromise a providers privacy. If she wants her incall location to be known to the whole world then let her be the one to tell everyone, no one person has the right to make any desicion for any other!!