I've known Linda for a long time. She is the consummate pro. She knows the ropes as far as cooperating with other girls in the area. This is not the first time I have heard this complaint about some ladies not giving the reference. And I don't think Linda was harsh - she's calling it like she sees it.
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Posted By: AlexandraMarieThe tone of your response to Macy's recommendation on how to request a reference is a little harsh. Just re-read what you wrote and think about how you said that -- it can't hurt to be kinder than you think you need to be when asking for something you are not entitled to.
Maybe it's your tone that's keeping ladies from replying?
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Posted By: linda
miss madison..
If you read mine post better..the gents did contact the proivder..not me beforehand...and she ball him out...I am a mature women , i know the rules and i been in the business.along time.. and sisters is a term... we use in the biz to each other..., not about friendship...and yes i know this is a catty business. very well... a good friend of mine years ago got kill in this biz, in her own townhouse...so safety is number one in my book!!!
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