but I would have no problem helping you out if you emailed me politely with enough information so I could recall the gentleman. Are these "ladies" well-reviewed and been around for awhile or are they backpage-type girls? Huge difference. Some of them are young and don't know any better but there are also really nice well-reviewed young girls who are super nice and quick to respond to reference requests. I have not had a problem with the girls here in Philly that I have contacted but they are also known in the community and have many good reviews. I would not accept unknown references. I also only accept email requests. That seems to be the most favored method of contact.
It's basic courtesy for the gentleman to ASK to use someone as a reference.