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... I had this civvie GF once and we just loved to do weird stuff.  One night, she put a remote controlled egg in her pussy and I put a remote controlled prostate vibe in my ass.  We gave each other our remotes and went to dinner.  We would turn the remotes on each other at the most inopportune times just to get at each other.  By the time we got to the car to go home, we were just about ready to fuck in the parking lot.  As it is, we barely controlled ourselves while groping each other's crotches on the way home.  A good blouse and a good shirt got ripped when we got home and went at each other for hours.  

All this leads to...  are there any providers that would like this kind of play?  Is it something I should post here on the BDSM board or should I post this on my regional or general boards?  Should I look exclusively for BDSM providers or is this something that a non BDSM provider would get into?  Or am I just a sick fucker?

It's incredibly hot and a great way to discreetly tease each other in public! Nothing sick about it. It is pretty tame compared to what some of us are into ;)

I agree completely. That sounds like a great time. I once took two dommes to dinner while I had a vibrating egg in my ass. The ladies took turns adjusting the egg's control unit to keep me on edge as they talked about all the nasty things they planned to do to me. At one point, they threatened to tell the waitress about my predicament and invite her to join in tormenting me. It was a really hot way to start a memorable evening, and I would love to do this type of public play again.

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..but I'm waayyyy sicker than you. :)

Stuff like that is wild awesome fun.  But I mean really: A vibe in the ass?  That's for amateurs!  You haven't lived until you've had an e-stim unit hooked up to your wazoo, while your hot sexy date is holding onto the wireless remote control.  You never know when that zap is coming and if it's going to be light and pleasurable, or if it's gonna have a little something extra thrown in…

A BDSM provider will likely have toys like this and/or be very comfortable with play like this.  But Yeah, Robin's right; a lot of not-so-kinky providers like this kind of stuff, too.  I wouldn't spring something like this on a provider cold, or on a provider whom you thought was a relative newbie.

As usual, when it comes to offbeat stuff, you're better off reading reviews carefully, and seeing what your prospective date has done with other guys, and/or reading the websites carefully to get hints as to what kind of activities they're into.

And a very open, healthy relationship.  
You let her get away???
xoClair

... Short version...  She was bi, we had a polyamoric relationship with our girlfriend, who was just as much fun.  I was in a program to become a Navy officer, in which I had already invested years, and was told to choose between my career or the girls.  Although I eventually retired a Naval officer, they may be my biggest regret.  Still the loves of my life...

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...sorry, Sailor, couldn't help myself there.  No offense intended, just too much of a setup you offered there.

Seriously, I've been sorta where you were once or twice myself.  The poly relationship thing sounds great in theory, but in practice they're exceedingly fragile constructs.  Sorry it didn't work out for you.

... we were actually taking about getting married.  THAT's when the military stepped in.  It was actually a pretty strong, committed relationship between the three of us.

... and it looks like I should extend my education in the hobby.  I think I'll post this on my regional board for their reaction, too.

Actually, I may have a review that mentions just this thing! I've done this a few times during sessions - out at a bar or fancy dinner, looking all prim and proper on the outside, but dripping down my leg under my dress. Oh sweet memories!

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