I am very careful. I would never do anything to cause unwanted pain on anyone. As professionals, we know how far to go without causing unwanted pain. I have heard stories though. I guess we all have
Has anybody experienced injuries with a Domme? Of, have any of you Dommes accidentally injured a hobbyist?
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I never hurt anyone who did not want to be hurt lol.
I am very careful. I would never do anything to cause unwanted pain on anyone. As professionals, we know how far to go without causing unwanted pain. I have heard stories though. I guess we all have
I don't want to hurt him so much that he is injured and won't return, so we can not grow as lovers together. I feel that if he is into the pain aspect of BDSM, then we will go over his hard limits during our negotiation prior to play, as well as discuss things during aftercare. As Dominas, we are "healers" and we should push limits and explore boundaries (the sub's as well as our own), but we should do no harm
The first guy who topped me (I didn't even know he was doing that! I was just a naive young thing) accidentally dislocated my left shoulder during rough sex. He was an aerialist so he was so used to injuries that he just scoffed at my whimpers. He popped it back in like it was nothing, and we kept going at it!
Mmmm the sex was reeaaally good...except for this incident:/
My last week in Phoenix was in mid January in 2011, there was a lady I had been really wanting to see from the wb270 site, and we had a 2 hour session where she was doing a sensual trampling/ballbust session. Well while trampling me she lost her balance and for a split second her entire weight was on one foot that just happened to be on the head of my penis. She looks down and says OMG your bleeding, now I wasn't bleeding bad but it just wouldn't stop. 6 hours later I was in the ER and the next day I had a 15 minute operation that cost $17,000. Thank god I had health insurance that covered about 90% of the cost.
Funny thing the wrestler/domme was visiting from Florida, and the next week I moved to Florida, to this day she teases me all the time saying that she's going to finish me off for good if I dare to come and see her, and you want to know something, when I get up enough courage I'm going to see her again!
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