I have frequented numerous professional mistresses, switches, and subs in the NYC area for close to a decade.  Through the years I've encountered many fantastic women in the field, but currently I find myself lacking some "go-to roleplay providers" who specialize in my particular fetishes.  Though I feel I have been conducting an exhaustive search, I fear that I may be overlooking some providers or reference resources.  Therefore, I'd really appreciate any input, suggestions, or advice.

Here are some basic details regarding what I seek:

* Professionalism and Respect - I prefer to treat BDSM providers as people first and fetishists second.  This is an important aspect for establishing mutual trust and credibility for me.  Therefore, I prefer to session with professionals who feel the same way towards clients.
* Hygiene - I am not into anything messy. Cleanliness and hygiene are vital to me.
* Role Play Expertise - My main fetish is role play with incestuous themes, and I love the exchange of ideas and improvisations that evolve organically with someone who genuinely enjoys role play.
* Power Dynamic - While I tend to prefer taking a dominant role in role play scenarios from a psychological perspective, I do not enjoy humiliating or causing pain to my role play partners. The maximum I would seek to provide is a light to medium sensual spanking.
* Physical Fetishes - I find that I am typically more attracted to brunettes with shapely legs and butts.  However, I am open-minded.

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