I couldn't begin to tell you how many guys that claim to be "nice"....aren't. I get such a charge out of guys who are like...."I'm such a great guy, I don't know why she wont see me again". Just because the guy thinks he's a real catch, doesn't mean all the girls are going to feel that way too. We have our own idea as to what constitues "nice" "respectful" "attractive" "fun"
Many moons ago, I was contacted by someone who looked like they just walked off the Manson Compound. They thought they looked fine. I was pertrified at the thought of someone seeing this person on my property. What would my white trash neighbors think? Hey, I have a reputation to keep up you know