I've had several messages lately that went beyond (IMHO) the guidelines. These messages are undergoing review by other moderators, Girl Next Door and staff before they get deleted or approved-just to insure I'm not being overly picky.

The key is to remember that message aren't supposed to be mean spirited or trouble-making.

If you have something legitimate to complain about, that's understandable and acceptable. However, don't become "whiney", support your posting with information.

Asking a question is fine, even voicing a reasoned opinion is great-just try and be objective. The majority of the recent posts I have not approved have been inflammatory and basicly bitching.

If your purpose is to bitch and crab about something, I probably won't approve it without further review.

Before you hit the submit button, take a moment tor reread your post and possibly apply some judicious editing perhaps?

J