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Your describing an addiction. He couldnt control it so
Spike.Mulrooney 840 reads
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he was hurting himself and his family. Proviers can offer fetishes but they shouldnt take advantage of an addict who is hurting himself. Its like a fortune teller who takes someones life savings.

I've been seeing a lot of ads on BP and other places for the past several years offering "financial domination" and it has me wondering. Is this some new form of masochism? Are there really people who  fantasize about having a woman treat them like dirt and take all their hard-earned money? I'm thinking it must be or I wouldn't be seeing so many ads.

Personally, if I had this fetish I think I'd try to keep it in the realm of fantasy as in, how about we just pretend you take my money?  

But then again, some people might say that about some of my fantasies so maybe I shouldn't be so judgmental.

I have received enormous amounts from piggies I have never met for whatever reason.  They send gifts, $, and with little to no contact just via a few emails.  I rather enjoy receiving tokens of appreciation.  Feel free to contribute. LOL Smile 4 ME

I've had a pay pig or two in my time... but to be perfectly honest, I was a little uncomfortable with it.

My longest lasting pay pig was with me for a few years. I met him through an online advertising site, where he volunteered to pay for my advertising fees, saying that he loved reading my writing and seeing my photos (for some reason, he did not feel satisfied by my website). After a few weeks, he asked if there was more he could do, so I told him he could pay my gym membership so that I could keep looking good. Apparently that wasn't enough, so I offered to let him pay my cable bill as well. He could apparently handle more, so started sending the utilities. And it went on...

What made me feel weird was that he didn't seem to went to converse at all aside from the bill paying. I eventually weirded him out I think when I told him to buy me a plane ticket to come out to see him (I was honestly going there anyway), and he backed off, saying that the fantasy would be ruined if I spoke directly to him. I'm sure I could have worked around that to keep him, but I was kind of turned off that he didn't want to take things to the next level. As much as I thought I would, I really don't miss him. Even though I was demanding money, I felt oddly in his debt and I *hate* feeling that way, especially in a D/s setting.

Best pay pig ever, whom I'd still be seeing if I lived locally to him - he had a fantasy of being cornered, subdued, and mugged by a beautiful black female thug. So, I dressed up in my best hoodrat attire and chased him down into a dark alley, roughed him up a wee bit, and took the contents of his wallet :) Easy enough, but I wish we could have worked something more physical into the deal, as he was a very good looking guy!

These days, I do see men that spoil me silly, and I love it. But I'd never consider any of them pigs! They're actually quite nice :) I actually find myself playing a more submissive role when it comes to separating men from their money, as it's very important to me that they remain in control of the situation. I've found myself playing "the doll" who men dress up (via a shopping spree at Agent Provocateur or Syren Latex) and display or the Pygmalion type lured into the debt of a man with with lewd intentions by expensive gifts. I feel it suits me much better :)

I'm with you on this one JL.  I could give my money to my wife!  Oh, wait ....

Spike.Mulrooney683 reads

fetish. or should I say thats a stupid NO fucking fetish.  if thats the only way they can get there rocks of there pretty sad.

I remember a young guy on the MaxFisch forum some years back who had this fetish and I kinda felt sorry for him. He felt awful after every time he gave away all his money to ladies he had never even seen but he just couldn't control it.  

The thing that really gets me is that most of the ladies who cater to this tell you right up front you are a pathetic loser and they only want your money. It's not like it's a con job. That would be more understandable.

Posted By: Spike.Mulrooney
fetish. or should I say thats a stupid NO fucking fetish.  if thats the only way they can get there rocks of there pretty sad.

Spike.Mulrooney841 reads

he was hurting himself and his family. Proviers can offer fetishes but they shouldnt take advantage of an addict who is hurting himself. Its like a fortune teller who takes someones life savings.

I do know that this is a real fetish and I have tried to work it a few times, but it has never gone anywhere.  One guy, in Vegas, was really sincere but he scared me.  He wanted me to take over his bank account and just leave him enough to pay his bills, and take the rest.  My gut kicked in and told me there would be a huge price to pay for an arrangement like that.
I do see people doing it, and this is a good thread.
But...eh.  Too much headfuck.

xoClair

And then there are some who experience tremendous satisfaction, (without being talked down to or treated like dirt), knowing that they have seriously enhanced your ability to eat.

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