I am quite curious about the discussion that will be driven by this post. In part, because I see a little of myself in that paper. I am very new to this, but in my first handful of appointments, something totally unexpected happened to me. I booked an appointment with a highly reviewed provider who is less than half my age. There is no possibility for any conventional relationship here at all. Plus that is not what I am looking for. I posted about this elsewhere. Our 2 hour appointment went WAY long, and we exchanged real contact data. The extra time was uncompensated.
This was weeks ago, and we remain in regular contact. Discussing a wide variety of topics and mutual interests. Including some stuff going on in her life. I cannot even be that regular of a client, since I live a long way from her. I regularly think I could be imposing on her life, when I reach out, but she always seems eager to reciprocate. So here I sit puzzled, as this electronic pen pal relationship develops. I find myself really enjoying this interaction, and it motivates me to find ways to see her again, but circumstances are such that this will be infrequent. She is a unique and fascinating personality in my opinion, and I know this is obvious to her. We are almost complete opposites in every possible way.
So I offer her no way to be that financially lucrative to her, and yet we have this friendship, or so it seems at least. Plus, without the client-provider relationship, none of this would have happened. The whole situation feels like a totally unexpected bonus to me, but I have no illusions that it will go past where it is now. I do expect this familiarity tol make the sex even better, and yes there will always be an envelope involved. I expected everything in this hobby to be purely business, but I guess this is not always strictly true. Not when real people and personalities are involved. Color me surprised. Perhaps what is happening here is not abnormal at all. I am curious to hear about other people's experiences.