I am quite curious about the discussion that will be driven by this post.  In part, because I see a little of myself in that paper.  I am very new to this, but in my first handful of appointments, something totally unexpected happened to me.  I booked an appointment with a highly reviewed provider who is less than half my age.  There is no possibility for any conventional relationship here at all.  Plus that is not what I am looking for.  I posted about this elsewhere.  Our 2 hour appointment went WAY long, and we exchanged real contact data.  The extra time was uncompensated.  

This was weeks ago, and we remain in regular contact.  Discussing a wide variety of topics and mutual interests.  Including some stuff going on in her life.  I cannot even be that regular of a client, since I live a long way from her.  I regularly think I could be imposing on her life, when I reach out, but she always seems eager to reciprocate.  So here I sit puzzled, as this electronic pen pal relationship develops.  I find myself really enjoying this interaction, and it motivates me to find ways to see her again, but circumstances are such that this will be infrequent.   She is a unique and fascinating personality in my opinion, and I know this is obvious to her.  We are almost complete opposites in every possible way.

So I offer her no way to be that financially lucrative to her, and yet we have this friendship, or so it seems at least.  Plus, without the client-provider relationship, none of this would have happened.   The whole situation feels like a totally unexpected bonus to me, but I have no illusions that it will go past where it is now.  I do expect this familiarity tol make the sex even better, and yes there will always be an envelope involved.  I expected everything in this hobby to be purely business, but I guess this is not always strictly true.  Not when real people and personalities are involved.  Color me surprised.  Perhaps what is happening here is not abnormal at all.  I am curious to hear about other people's experiences.