Just cause you're married doesn't mean you have to share everything!
- I have my own laptop
- I have my own email account - she uses Yahoo(!), I use Gmail.
- I don't give her any reasons to be jealous. Think about this one for a long time. You can't be "sneaky" because it requires telling lots of lies! Lying is not a habit you want to get into.
For example, don't say "I'm going to play golf" and instead go to see your whore. What if wife asks who you played with, what was your score, where did you play, how come you're not sweaty, etc. Too many lies!
You need to hobby at times your wife isn't looking for you. For me it's when I travel for work, or when I know my wife is going to be away for several hours. You could also hobby during the work day at lunchtime, or leave work early and hobby on the way home.
Minimize the lies!
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Posted By: bonaparte
.. to make sure the wife doesn't find out?
i do the following:
- erase history on the browser (last 2 hours)
- use a separate junk mail account for any e-mails
I am trying to be very careful, since it is easy to make a mistake.
i don't like being sneaky, but I need some sex ....
what do you married hobbyists do ...
