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Anonymousfun and others have posted the best possible advice

Posted 8/4/2012 at 1:01:57 PM

for anyone. I think everyone can find a super satisfying companion if they know how to do it. Because in the first place, looks, chemistry, and moods are subjective and differ with every companion+client combo and even differ by day/week. People lie about their appearance and put old photos up (people just don't realize that there is someone for everyone, and all of us can be so much happier when we're as honest as possible). But everyone's trying to make their money and that has to be factored in.

So you find someone who looks like someone you'd like to see, find all the photos you can on the internet of them, read their reviews (paying scant attention to numbers- there really is no plausible way of making numbers actually work due to the subjectiveness of it all), and then read their posts, websites, blogs, etc. to see if their personality matches in all categories, and then research the reviews (meaning that if someone has reviewed your desired provider and given her a 10, look at that reviewer's other reviews to see if he is consistent on how he rates them). Once you find general consistency, then maybe PM the reviewer to get more info/reassurance about her (heck- PM three of her reviewers!!), then finally make contact with her. You can tell a lot by someone's manner in correspondence. Ultimately, a complete 10 in looks might not be a 10 in experience for you because you two may share very little chemistry, and for many other reasons (she smells funny, she thinks you smell funny, she reminds you of your sister-in-law, whatever). So with every single engagement, ymmv, as there is nothing in the world that can account for every single outlying factor.

Problem is that people usually want a quick and easy lay, and all the above is too much work for them. Eventually, though, after doing the above a few times, you'll get to know several reviewers with tastes similar to your own, and then you'll have ample ladies to choose from without all the same work. (Although the laziness of allowing someone else to do all the work is probably not commendable.)

The other problem is that men seem to be so taken by visuals that they will book a woman with a fake photo on BP (or even on her own website) regardless of the fact that it's probably fake, without doing one iota of research, because the fantasy is so tantalizing. They allow themselves to be duped because the possibility of it being real is so alluring that it overrides logic. (Kinda like the Nigerian scams about a distant relative or fugitive dictator who wants to give you all their billions.) Those fellows are probably the most cynical of them all here after they've been taken a few times. (Just FYI, guys, someone who looks like Scarlett Johansson and charges 200/hour is probably a fake.)

In the end, as in any consumer transaction, it is down to the client to do his due diligence to make sure he is getting what he wants. He can blame the companions all he wants, but in the end, it was his choice to engage with her. Today, more than any other time in the past, there is enough information out there to make decisions that will leave you satisfied, if not thrilled, with your companion of choice. If you get "taken", don't blame the companion or her reviewers- blame yourself for not having put enough time and effort into getting the experience you want.

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Posted By: anonymousfun

Research well and stop complaining. As they say, there is one for everyone. All you have to do is find yours and stop wasting time trying to change the world of hobby.

Good Hunting and have more sex and enjoy.


 

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