just had a friend i know get arrested in a prostitution sting. he was held a fairly high position in a community institution. his face is plastered all over the internet, newspaper. he is separated from his wife and living apart from his children. he was fired from his job.
I was actually in the process of making an appt with a provider when I found it. it sort of rocked me, and I cancelled. not that I am going to quit the hobby. prob too addicted for that.
but it does remind me of the incredibly high price and extremely high risk. I am certain, that when those cops rush in, and you are cuffed and hauled off in the back of a squad car, photographed and put in a cell, you wish more than anything, you had swore off the few mintutes of pleasure for a lifetime of humiliation and the reputation you have built is destroyed and you will be forever remembered by your friends as 'pervert'.
I wish it was legal. I am not his judge, I understand. but it scared me, I guess, because I know him. yeah, I try to becareful and see TER reviewed girls, but it can happen. and woe to those of us who get exposed in this way.