just had a friend i know get arrested in a prostitution sting.  he was held a fairly high position in a community institution.  his face is plastered all over the internet, newspaper.  he is separated from his wife and living apart from his children.  he was fired from his job.  

I was actually in the process of making an appt with a provider when I found it.  it sort of rocked me, and I cancelled.  not that I am going to quit the hobby.  prob too addicted for that.  

but it does remind me of the incredibly high price and extremely high risk.  I am certain, that when those cops rush in, and you are cuffed and hauled off in the back of a squad car, photographed and put in a cell, you wish more than anything, you had swore off the few mintutes of pleasure for a lifetime of humiliation and the reputation you have built is destroyed and you will be forever remembered by your friends as 'pervert'.

I wish it was legal. I am not his judge, I understand.  but it scared me, I guess, because I know him.  yeah, I try to becareful and see TER reviewed girls, but it can happen.  and woe to those of us who get exposed in this way.