What I am seeing from you is some doubts about what you are doing with this guy.
As quoted by Benjamin Franklin, "When in doubt, don't."
You have some people like myself telling you just be friends.
You have a few asking you, "Are you nucking futs?"
You have a number of people telling you that he maybe controlling you in some way.
See the pattern here?
There are way too many red flags about this situation that you need to step away for a few days from this guy. No email, no text, no phone calls. NOTHING! Watch for his responses to your silence.
If he comes across as an butthead, then you have seen the real side of him. If he comes across as being understanding and being cool about it, then it's *possible* he *may* be an OK guy.
Zoe, you came in here for a reason... you had some doubts going through your mind.
You shared this with us and have gotten some feedback. Some of which may have not what you expected.
Proceed with caution.
Posted By: ZoePiers This is all new, especially my feelings being involved. I like him, I really do. I would any guy who make me feel 'that'.
In the contrary I want to see the world, come and go as I please. See clients only when I want too, he won't let me, not for a second. I Just want to be.. But I am willing to trade all that for experiences with someone I find interesting.. Finances are practical. I wouldnt be here if I didnt feel the need to or want too. I love my lifestyle, I like the effect I have on men sexually but it's not for a lifetime.. And I also have students loans and an MBA to consider.
I don't know the future, I know what I have and feel now. I am willing to take him as he is as long as I am a priority, we all have bagages. I am sure escorting is something he has to deal with..
I genuinely think he means well, but overwhelmed that this is too good to be true because he doesn't believe he can have me.