But some men are oaky with it and that's fine. ANd some women are not wanting to risk getting an STD and possibly passing it on to family members and other men. You have your likes and seek out the ladies that are willing to do what you need.

The CBJ people are just doing what they feel is right for them.

I guess what I find irritating is the guys and gals who like BBBJ crap all over those that don't and I don't see why there is that need. You're not going to convince them otherwise and why would you want too? It's really is their personal business and since no one is forcing you to have one (CBJ)...why the interest?