I may be a rare bird but if I am, it speaks poorly of my gender.

I mean how does one even tactfully say: "I own a mirror and know I am not God's greatest gift to women kind. You need not spare my feelings as I fuck you by acting like I am a super stud giving you multiple orgasms with my limp dick. I can take the truth that you are here for the money and not my extra small cock."?  I honestly want to know. It seems like a huge mood killer in the rare times a woman might think I am not all that ugly and can actually be turned on by me.

Is it really to the point that most men are needing coddling by having women fake an orgasm or two.? If so it is a sad time to be a man. How can we improve our skills if every woman fakes it?