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Becca is a first class lady if you ask me.  She gives me and us important information without talking smack about the person who is doing bad things to another person or other people.  Kudos to you Becca!

I can never wrap my head around the notion that anyone in the hobby would play without a rain coat.  The risk is just too huge.  Besides getting sick and creating a life, there is another risk that could be just as stressful.  This happen in Wisconsin to a personal friend of mine (NOT A CLIENT).  The provider is popular, well known and has been around just about as long as I have...long enough to know better and have her life together where as she doesn't have to be dishonest to make money.  She's also not a young kid, old enough to know better and for us to expect better from her.

Things started off good between client and provider and they saw each other for a few months.  They got comfortable with each other and didn't use a rain coat.  They were both aware of that fact.  

A few weeks later, she tells him she's pregnant and needs money for an abortion and it was scheduled.  No mention of the psychological evaluation that is required before each abortion.  The amount of money she said the abortion cost was more than he was told by the facility she said she was going to.  To make a long story short, all her info has been disproved by simple research. Her story kept growing and if she were Pinocchio so would her nose. The phone calls and texts were harassing and the contradictions were huge. Needless to say, this girl isn't a very good liar.  

This girl took away his peace of mind, he couldn't eat or sleep.  It effected every aspect of his life as he couldn't live it without this dark could over his head.  He finally caved and gave her money to make her go away in which she sent her friend and fellow provider (who also has been around about as long as me) to pick up.  He was told her friend will meet her at planned parent hood with money and the abortion will be done that day.  He followed her friend and wasn't a bit surprised when she didn't go near planned parenthood.  It was all a scam.  

This put my friend through weeks of agony, worry, upset and took away any happiness and peace of mind.  He gave her the money to get his life back and her out of it.  He knows she lied and was scamming him, he just knew no other way to make her go away.    

There were red flags leading up to the scam...she would ask for money above her rate but not give him anymore time.  She would randomly contact him and say "I need money, you should see me".  Before the scam, he loaned her a large amount of money with the agreement it would be paid back in services, she never kept her end of the deal.  She said she wasn't working but recently posted ads and some of them expensive.  They have never gone done...their still up!! She figured out he has money and tried to scam it out of him every way she can.

For those of you who ask to use no rain coat, I suggest you think twice.  I don't have the vocabulary to describe the hell my friend was put through.  I've heard this provider has done this scam and others to various gentlemen.  I can't confirm that however, seeing how heartless and cold she was to my friend, I wouldn't put it past her.

Just be smart and use a rain coat, it's never worth the worry that comes with the risk!!!

Namast

Please, tell us Becca who this is ? This is unacceptable and casts a bad shadow on all of us other providers who are honest, reputable and have our act together.

This is one of the reasons gentlemen you should not ask or pressure a provider to go bareback with you. Also, don't kid yourself, if a provider is going bareback with you, she is most likely doing it with other clients too.  Use a condom !! If you don't want to use that, then go out and buy some female condoms and ask the provider to use one of these. I am always happy to use a female condom if a client requests it. Be safe, or be sorry. The choice is up to you. This man made some stupid decisions and learned a hard and costly lesson.

aaaaahhhhh this is so messed up on so many levels. I can say that I have been recently informed of this situation and I can add that I have heard "stories" from numerous gentlemen that they have had some similar issues with not only the provider in question here but other local providers that are very well known. Come on ladies, seriously WWWWHHHHYYYYY????? Why put your reputation on the line for a measly little chunk of change. I don't know this young ladies life situation but I am guessing she may be dealing with some difficult things in her life to have to go to such drastic measures like this. I just can't wrap my brain around this. Welp, like they say "every dog has its day" and "what is done in the dark shall eventually come to light" right?  I hope that this type of behaviour does not continue and whatever this young lady is going through gets better for her. And I'd like to add that not all of us ladies are like that and some of us actually have a good head on our shoulders and don't find this type of crap acceptable. If you know better you do better!  

Posted By: beccablossoms
I can never wrap my head around the notion that anyone in the hobby would play without a rain coat.  The risk is just too huge.  Besides getting sick and creating a life, there is another risk that could be just as stressful.  This happen in Wisconsin to a personal friend of mine (NOT A CLIENT).  The provider is popular, well known and has been around just about as long as I have...long enough to know better and have her life together where as she doesn't have to be dishonest to make money.  She's also not a young kid, old enough to know better and for us to expect better from her.  
   
 Things started off good between client and provider and they saw each other for a few months.  They got comfortable with each other and didn't use a rain coat.  They were both aware of that fact.    
   
 A few weeks later, she tells him she's pregnant and needs money for an abortion and it was scheduled.  No mention of the psychological evaluation that is required before each abortion.  The amount of money she said the abortion cost was more than he was told by the facility she said she was going to.  To make a long story short, all her info has been disproved by simple research. Her story kept growing and if she were Pinocchio so would her nose. The phone calls and texts were harassing and the contradictions were huge. Needless to say, this girl isn't a very good liar.  
   
 This girl took away his peace of mind, he couldn't eat or sleep.  It effected every aspect of his life as he couldn't live it without this dark could over his head.  He finally caved and gave her money to make her go away in which she sent her friend and fellow provider (who also has been around about as long as me) to pick up.  He was told her friend will meet her at planned parent hood with money and the abortion will be done that day.  He followed her friend and wasn't a bit surprised when she didn't go near planned parenthood.  It was all a scam.    
   
 This put my friend through weeks of agony, worry, upset and took away any happiness and peace of mind.  He gave her the money to get his life back and her out of it.  He knows she lied and was scamming him, he just knew no other way to make her go away.    
   
 There were red flags leading up to the scam...she would ask for money above her rate but not give him anymore time.  She would randomly contact him and say "I need money, you should see me".  Before the scam, he loaned her a large amount of money with the agreement it would be paid back in services, she never kept her end of the deal.  She said she wasn't working but recently posted ads and some of them expensive.  They have never gone done...their still up!! She figured out he has money and tried to scam it out of him every way she can.  
   
 For those of you who ask to use no rain coat, I suggest you think twice.  I don't have the vocabulary to describe the hell my friend was put through.  I've heard this provider has done this scam and others to various gentlemen.  I can't confirm that however, seeing how heartless and cold she was to my friend, I wouldn't put it past her.  
   
 Just be smart and use a rain coat, it's never worth the worry that comes with the risk!!!  
   
 Namaste  
 

Wow, that is really messed up!!  I have heard enough stories of providers screwing over clients and clients screwing over providers and I thought some of those were mind blowing but this!?  What the heck is wrong with her!?  What's wrong with him too!?  Business/hobby or personal life and you're sexually active, always use protections.  I've had a few clients that tried to be slick and go without protections and I've declined them after that date.  A client openly willing to go bareback with a provider, use your big head (the one with the brain).  It's too bad that we hear or see situations like that.  There's still plenty of respectful providers and clients out there.

are top notch, high class ladies and are giving great advice regarding the common sense reasons for using protection. Speaking as a super paranoid,  "what if" type hobbyist, I would not even want to see a provider who provides BB FS. My reason for feeling this way is because "what if" the condom broke?  I know that this type of lady would have a much higher % chance of having any number undesirable organisms in her vaginal fluids.  If this did happen I would not sleep for weeks knowing that some of the potential diseases take a while to show up in a test.  Have I ever been with a provider who does BB FS with her clients?  I have no idea but it would bother me if I  actually knew it.  

Have fun and play safe but don't play with your health!

WICardinalfan532 reads

Ok.  We have eliminated Betty, Vixen, and Tori.   I know Summer well enough to know she is not the one.    

So who could it be?   I feel like we are playing wheel of fortune ( come on, ya have to laugh).

As much as I want to, I can't out a provider publicly. She deserves it, no doubt.  I just can bring myself to do it. I will privately share her name and what she did for the protection of all. I will NOT engage in character assassination of her or anyone. She is what she is, adding more negative to the situation helps no one.

 
I've never personally had an issue with her until she hurt one of my loved ones...I was by his side since the beginning of this. Now my approach is to avoid her, never accept references from her and ignore the hell out of her. She no longer exists in my world unless someone needs to be warned about her

WICardinalfan722 reads

You are a classy lady with a stellar reputation!

Becca is a first class lady if you ask me.  She gives me and us important information without talking smack about the person who is doing bad things to another person or other people.  Kudos to you Becca!

Becca,

We haven't met but I was introduced into p411 by Tori and Vixen after meeting on HOH (Brandi there).  I have great respect for both of them but I live in MadTown and well it is a hike to see either so I haven't in some time.

IF the lady in question works out of MKE primarily or non MadTown then I feel it isn't me business.

BUT if she works here (MadTown) I need to know as well for my and my family's safety.

Thank you.  I would love to meet up with you some day too?  

Mika

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