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Depends. If I met the girl in church, no way.
Posted 7/5/2012 at 2:36:31 PM
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Would you tell?
beach6216 | 7/5/2012 7:49:43 AM (992 reads)- No Way
808transplant | 7/5/2012 8:02:28 AM (311 reads) - I guess good advice for the ladies who provide...
saturnsky | 7/5/2012 8:05:14 AM (339 reads) - My thoughts.
Demore | 7/5/2012 8:03:57 AM (288 reads) - No, because...
CurlyW - Nats Fan | 7/5/2012 8:10:23 AM (286 reads) - Good can come because you're pretending to be someone you are not.
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 8:13:22 AM (294 reads) - I hear ya...BUT..
CurlyW - Nats Fan | 7/5/2012 8:23:35 AM (220 reads) - I can't "prove" anything, but that is not the point. I am talking about outright
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 8:28:32 AM (279 reads) - I applaud your honestly, London....
CurlyW - Nats Fan | 7/5/2012 8:53:30 AM (189 reads) - So you're saying guys are wired to lie
saturnsky | 7/5/2012 10:08:27 AM (192 reads) - Wired to cheat. Monogamy is unnatural. Leaves you miserable [e]
CurlyW - Nats Fan | 7/5/2012 10:11:45 AM (164 reads) - Never left my brother miserable, but then again, he is not in the hobby so maybe
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 10:14:26 AM (237 reads) - Re: Never left my brother miserable, but then again, he is not in the hobby so maybe
lungman | 7/5/2012 10:55:46 AM (169 reads) - Re: Never left my brother miserable, but then again, he is not in the hobby so maybe
dtbic | 7/5/2012 10:25:14 PM (164 reads) - Since we have evolved past rutting in the caves...
saturnsky | 7/5/2012 10:20:56 AM (193 reads) - Speak for yourself, I would return to monogamy if it was mutual.
scoed | 7/5/2012 7:24:08 PM (144 reads) - Amen. I could and have accepted my wife past and present but the lie almost ended everything.
scoed | 7/5/2012 7:18:16 PM (171 reads) - Choices and Dating Pool
Duplicitouslust | 7/5/2012 12:44:15 PM (169 reads) - I thought I made that clear...I have no choices. I do not date period.
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 1:32:23 PM (164 reads) - I would not go into details about just "how" involved I was,
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 8:10:25 AM (264 reads) - Ahh, But if I found out....
TheHoundOfCullin | 7/5/2012 8:35:29 AM (205 reads) - Exactly how I feel as well. If you had to lie to get me, you will have to keep lying to keep me.
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 8:48:35 AM (189 reads) - Its not lying...
CurlyW - Nats Fan | 7/5/2012 8:55:23 AM (168 reads) - Ahhh, so if she "held back the truth" about sleeping with your brother
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 8:59:46 AM (192 reads) - As far as the STD....
CurlyW - Nats Fan | 7/5/2012 9:09:03 AM (164 reads) - Well...we all define "hurt" in a different way now don't we? I would be more than "hurt" to find ou
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 9:29:22 AM (186 reads) - Well said London...
TheHoundOfCullin | 7/5/2012 9:34:27 AM (139 reads) - so you will tell her that you used to hire companions?
dddbabe | 7/5/2012 9:58:18 AM (177 reads) - I know. I would have to tell her. Dump me..At least my conscious is clear.
TheHoundOfCullin | 7/5/2012 9:18:27 AM (148 reads) - Try saying dump me...
CurlyW - Nats Fan | 7/5/2012 10:03:24 AM (148 reads) - That's my point.. I would never let it get to that. eom
TheHoundOfCullin | 7/5/2012 10:06:26 AM (144 reads) - God, you guys are idealistic, and nuts!
ziggy440 | 7/5/2012 9:18:34 AM (223 reads) - And that's what you need for your relationships...not all of us are that way.
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 9:34:30 AM (204 reads) - Not always the case
ChgoCPA | 7/5/2012 11:10:25 AM (153 reads) - I understand that mode of thinking ..
TheHoundOfCullin | 7/5/2012 11:25:07 AM (141 reads) - I thought we were discussing past issues only
ChgoCPA | 7/5/2012 11:59:41 AM (147 reads) - Doesn't that assume she is going to find out anyway?
ziggy440 | 7/5/2012 12:25:40 PM (142 reads) - I do not deny my selfishness.
TheHoundOfCullin | 7/5/2012 1:32:59 PM (143 reads) - Been there and I disagree.
scoed | 7/5/2012 8:32:57 PM (114 reads) - Re: And that's what you need for your relationships...not all of us are that way.
lungman | 7/5/2012 11:55:18 AM (136 reads) - Thank you for the advice and the judgment
ziggy440 | 7/5/2012 12:10:00 PM (171 reads) - Again, you miss the point and there is no judgement...let's get that straight.
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 1:17:49 PM (171 reads) - You feel that way because you're a hobbyist! Guys in the real world don't
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 1:52:16 PM (187 reads) - I am a perfect example. Super vanilla before I took the plunge into this. eom
TheHoundOfCullin | 7/5/2012 2:32:41 PM (150 reads) - Yes, I told my wife all about my past
faxinator | 7/5/2012 10:11:53 AM (219 reads) - Depends. If I met the girl in church, no way.
crazyshit | 7/5/2012 2:36:31 PM (165 reads) - What church do you go to lol. I am non-denominational ha ha. E.
London Rayne | 7/5/2012 2:44:56 PM (139 reads) - Well, it was an example. Don(end)
crazyshit | 7/5/2012 5:06:30 PM (157 reads) - Sorry, shoulda read, "Don't read too much into it." (end)
crazyshit | 7/5/2012 5:21:47 PM (124 reads) - Dude, have you heard the saying
anonymousfun | 7/5/2012 4:00:00 PM (147 reads) - MY wife knows I see providers and I know she sees clients and providers. So yes. EOM
scoed | 7/5/2012 6:54:51 PM (153 reads) - I think you are the exception because of special circumstances but most guys head would explode (e)
NuckyT | 7/5/2012 7:55:15 PM (143 reads) - no no, and no...
NuckyT | 7/5/2012 7:52:51 PM (138 reads) - Some secrets get taken to the grave...
Crazy Diamond | 7/5/2012 11:09:56 PM (169 reads) - Or they come out when you have alzheimer's! EOitprobablydoesntmatterthenM
perfectstorm | 7/6/2012 10:29:16 AM (114 reads) - Yes you be honest and if he walks he never loved her to begin with
Angela_Petite2 | 7/6/2012 12:13:39 PM (128 reads)
