Well LR I could write another really long post about this...think you would read all of it?????
For starters there is a HUGE difference between beautiful and sexy. My opinion.
The most stunning physically beautiful woman I ever met in the hobby was head and shoulders and waist and hips and thighs and knees and ankles and toes the WORST experience I ever had in the hobby. Ok there were two more in the running but this gal absolutely takes the cake.
Why? There is more life in every morgue in America that what is running through this gals veins.
I am not saying by any stretch of my own expansive imagination and ego saying I am the best dude in the sack any of ya'll, meaning gals in the hobby have ever had pleasure with. I am saying with full confidence I am not half bad and I think a part of that is I am pretty much more interested in giving pleasure than getting it. Plus I have figured out the more pleasure you give the more you get back.
Having said that I did everything I knew, everything I had in my bag of tricks, simply cared about her feeling pleasure and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!
I absolutely love DATY cause I have done my research, know each woman is different and am willing to ask, follow direction and be patient to be able to give as much pleasure as possible. I am feeling pretty good knowing I can get-er-done......
With this gal ABSOLUTETLY NOTHING!
So YES she was absolutely stunning from a physical standpoint but she was not SEXY AT ALL!
Now I have also had many experiences with a gal who is not the most striking woman. She however is SEXY SEXY SEXY!
I guess what I am getting at is FOR ME, SEXY is more of an attitude that spills over into the physical part.
Just for me a STUNNING gal can't just bend over and get 10's from me. To answer your question I prefer a woman that might not be all that whose passion is just off the charts than some gal who might even be intimidating and about as interesting and exciting as a bag of rocks.
FYI London when I think about askiing a gal for some of her time and companionship the performance part of the ratings carries more weight. As a matter of fact if they are not 9's and 10's I do not care what she looks like. Let someone else bore her to tears. I am looking for animalistic mutual passion and when it works out right it is just so great!(animal house reference)! LOL
Anyway, that is just my opinion and maybe my way of looking at it helps you out with your confusion.