Posted By: PSEguy147
I am a BBFS guy and want to speak out against disrespect towards BBFS hobbyists and providers.  BBFS is a personal choice and NOT for everyone in the hobby or provider.  If a hobbyists or escorts do not want to do BBFS, it is their personal choice and you have to learn to respect it. By pushing them or pressuring them to do BBFS is not respecting the escort’s wishes.
           I going to teach you a technique I develop to screen out non-BBFS provider.  By doing the screening, you are respecting the escorts right to choose what they provide and you are not wasting your resources by seeing providers who do not want to offer BBFS if you want BBFS.
I am angry about the fact that guys who want BBFS are demonized as being dirty, nasty, sick, etc. We are not wackos or crazies. It is personal choices just like someone have a preference of being gay.  People who want to engage in BBFS should be respected and not demonized and put down.
I am a guy who always request BBFS (no blow jobs, and cum in pussy without condom with spermicide from drug store) from escorts.  My deal is that no condoms or no sex. I do not bend. If the escort does not want to do BBFS then I will terminate the service.
Here is my philosophical rational. If you think about it, we are linked sexually to 90% or more of the adults in the world sexually.  Think about your exes, extra martial affairs, ex-boyfriends, ex-girlfriends, escorts, prostitutes, gay relationship (if you had one) and your partner’s relationship.  If you think philosophically, you can conclude that 90% or more adults are link sexually without condom usage. Why don’t  90% or more of the world get STDs?
Most adults have healthy immune system to fight of STDs that why you do not find 90% or more adults in the world got STDs and HIV infection. Some adults have compromised immune system due to drug usage, overworking, insomnia, poor diet, etc. that why they get STD explosion.  This is not a medical fact but a philosophical justification for engaging in BBFS. Yes, condoms will protect against STDs but it decreases sensation for me.  I have mental problems with condoms because I feel I am being teased and not getting the real thing.  I may be wrong about my rational and willing to take the responsibility for being wrong.
I am a healthy guy who is on good diet, good hydration, and exercise regularly, sleep enough, and do not overwork to the point of poor health. I choose to engage in BBFS(CIP only).  I use spermicide that I purchased from the drug store before BBFS-CIP.  Escorts that engage in BBFS(CIP only) with me love it much.
At first I did not know how to ask for BBFS so I saw escorts that do not offer BB services or only BBBJ some of the times. It was hit and misses for me. Some escorts I was able to convince into BBFS but others I was not able to convince to do BBFS. I wasted allot of money on escorts that do not offer BBFS.
Now I learn how to screen escorts who do not want to offer BBFS. I will call the escort up and ask if she is a PSE escort. If she is not one, then I will not book an appointment. This save me allot of money, time, and heartache with escorts who do not provide BBFS.  From experience I learn not to use the term BBFS, no condom, or raw  over the phone because many escorts are scare when you use these terms. The best term is PSE when screening escorts that provide BBFS.
Don’t try to convince escorts to give you BBFS when they are not willing.  It does not work most of the time. They will tell you about the dangers of STDs and they are right.
I am warning you about the reaction you will get from some escorts over the phone. I been called bitch, got the phone hang up on, yell at from escorts, etc. when I ask if they are PSE escorts.  This comes with the territory when trying to find BBFS escorts. I had offers from other escorts to engage in PSE and willing to book an appointment with me.  Some escorts told me over the phone that they specialize in PSE.
*Don’t argue with me that PSE does not include BBFS. I check on the Urban dictionary and it says that PSE include BBFS.