That you and your wife discuss what you are both looking for.
You will find about anything and everything by searching and reviewing as well as monitoring and discussing the "board topics" You will be much happier here than strip club back rooms sir. Just do your homework. Good luck!
We are not only new to the board, but also the "hobby".
So how does a long-married couple end up here? Well it didn't happen overnight; its been a slow and gradual process. The progression over the years has been Vegas burlesque shows, to far corners of strip clubs to kind of take it all in, to sitting at the stage, to taking girls to the private rooms.
Now this has all been driven at the pace, depth, and desires of my wife. I'm not saying I was an unwilling participant by any means, but I've never steered us in any direction and always go with what my wife feels comfortable with. After all, I'm a happily married man without any of the extra curricular activities and realize how lucky I am. I think we'll post in the Vegas board to describe what kind of experience we're looking for and see what the locals chime in with.
Anyway, what suggestions do both sides have for getting our feet wet? I am already trying to deali with the first hurdle of screening (see newb board). Beyond that what advice do you have for us
A P411 account, Date Check etc for screening. You may initially have to pay for TER in order to read the reviews. I think review reading is super important esp. if you want to find someone suitable that deals with couples. Sure some providers are super hot and have very good reviews, but I have also read that they are not as comparable with couples as they are just with men. Happy hunting
Posted By: LetsPlayToday247
Hello all,
We are not only new to the board, but also the "hobby".
So how does a long-married couple end up here? Well it didn't happen overnight; its been a slow and gradual process. The progression over the years has been Vegas burlesque shows, to far corners of strip clubs to kind of take it all in, to sitting at the stage, to taking girls to the private rooms.
Now this has all been driven at the pace, depth, and desires of my wife. I'm not saying I was an unwilling participant by any means, but I've never steered us in any direction and always go with what my wife feels comfortable with. After all, I'm a happily married man without any of the extra curricular activities and realize how lucky I am. I think we'll post in the Vegas board to describe what kind of experience we're looking for and see what the locals chime in with.
Anyway, what suggestions do both sides have for getting our feet wet? I am already trying to deali with the first hurdle of screening (see newb board). Beyond that what advice do you have for us?
I can relate to the passage of events that have led you both to this realm. I too started out in stripclubs (though I still am a full time monger there as well!) and eventually, thru the help & guidance of a former dancer turned escort, made my way to this world. I have had major success as a female hobbyist, and in my quests to find the right ladies for me I routinely come across many that enjoy couples as much as they do lady clients.
The biggest hurdle that you face is one that you have already flagged - getting screened. Using P411 is a great start to help get established and on your way. So good luck and enjoy!
We are not only new to the board, but also the "hobby".
So how does a long-married couple end up here? Well it didn't happen overnight; its been a slow and gradual process. The progression over the years has been Vegas burlesque shows, to far corners of strip clubs to kind of take it all in, to sitting at the stage, to taking girls to the private rooms.
Now this has all been driven at the pace, depth, and desires of my wife. I'm not saying I was an unwilling participant by any means, but I've never steered us in any direction and always go with what my wife feels comfortable with. After all, I'm a happily married man without any of the extra curricular activities and realize how lucky I am. I think we'll post in the Vegas board to describe what kind of experience we're looking for and see what the locals chime in with.
Anyway, what suggestions do both sides have for getting our feet wet? I am already trying to deali with the first hurdle of screening (see newb board). Beyond that what advice do you have for us?
if you are in vegas let me suggest Curvycoedcarly she was simply AMAZING with my wife, she made sure she was comfortable with everything she was doing, we had a few drinks and talked before hand to get to know each other........for our first time i have to say we hit the jackpot, we have seen her twice now and a friend of hers once and plan to see several others that she has recommended ,,,,she is smart, funny, curves for days, and beautiful!!!! good luck...and yes you ARE a lucky guy, as am i.
if you are in vegas let me suggest Curvycoedcarly she was simply AMAZING with my wife, she made sure she was comfortable with everything she was doing, we had a few drinks and talked before hand to get to know each other........for our first time i have to say we hit the jackpot, we have seen her twice now and a friend of hers once and plan to see several others that she has recommended ,,,,she is smart, funny, curves for days, and beautiful!!!! good luck...and yes you ARE a lucky guy, as am i.
Critter - How did the first time go down for you two? How did you find someone? What steps did you as a couple take? If you don't want to share on the board, you can PM me (I'm not looking for specific details, just a general path and method).
Their needs and desires are much different than a normal session with a one on one or a two girl. Find a provider that you are interested in and ask her if she is couple friendly, or search on the ad boards where you are located or visiting for providers that post this type of session in their ads. Some ladies may have it listed on their website. The details of what kind of session you and your SO are seeking does not need to be discussed until after she screens you, whichever method she uses. Some couples I have met have set boundries, while other couples do not.
Couple play is fascinating and sensual...as compared to vanilla swinging where it can be great or a slow uncomfortable grind to find the right lady or another couple that are truly compatable, this is more controlled. Really it is like a relationship that has defined boundaries in itself...a courtesan is less threatening than another woman because she is not going to violate the couple's integrity. She is there 100% for you individually and as a couple to facilitate the experience desired and only that. Wonderful place to explore...your wife is a pioneer of sensuality in your marriage and must really have a twinkle in her eye as she inherently knows how to keep that sparkle and attraction alive. You are a lucky man!!! She is a lucky lady!!! Enjoy the journey...be open to screening for newbies with whatever guidance your chosen provider is...wonder and steamy times await you!
You signed up for TER and got singed by the surprise move of your thread. I think this was a borderline "Move to ISO" move, but it's already working, sort of.
Posted By: LetsPlayToday247
Not sure why this was moved to "In Search Of" - we're looking for General Discussion and advice, no set specific service (yet).
Can it get moved back?
You can ask TER to move it back to Newbie but you have some other Qs there already.
At some point, you will be ISO particular names (Profiles and Reviews) to figure out your next step. You would do that here (ISO) and on your Local board.
But, if you have some names and recommendations to start with (as posted here and on Newbie), you can get your Qs answered more quickly and precisely ... I would think. (I suggested some ways to "do your own homework" on the Newbie board. ISO can be faster but more public.
I remember all too well what it's like to be in her shoes. Meet me for a drink before moving forward. Discuss any limits and boundaries with your escort. Making sure that YOUR WIFE is comfortable is paramount. I'd love to be "the one".
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