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serpius 451 reads
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Hello,

I always do the hygiene thing which does include trimming my nails and making sure that nothing sharp is sticking out.

About half of the providers that I see will use their hands to rub all over mine, it's their way of checking the fingers and hands while being sensual.

The very first time it happened to me, I was not aware of what she was doing until she told me after we were done. She was slick in doing that, but it was cool by me.

I've never had a provider turn my fingers away. It's all about technique.

The one thing I never understood is that when a provider tells you that she does not like FIV, but she likes the penis up in there. Is there something wrong with this picture?

Serpius

lhooq2053 reads

wondering about something. Many providers don't like having a finger inserted. Issue of not wanting to draw blood, or hygiene, or both.
I like doing this during DATY, and for many women it seems to enhance pleasure.

Any way around this? I saw an instructional video on pussy eating (on youporn.com), where the performer wore a glove. Any suggestions?
I'd feel a little weird showing up with a glove, so asking for some ideas here....

faxinator559 reads

Asj your provider. She'll tell you. Some require a thorough wash with anti-bacterial soap first.

But as always, respect your provider's rules and boundarie.

serpius452 reads

Hello,

I always do the hygiene thing which does include trimming my nails and making sure that nothing sharp is sticking out.

About half of the providers that I see will use their hands to rub all over mine, it's their way of checking the fingers and hands while being sensual.

The very first time it happened to me, I was not aware of what she was doing until she told me after we were done. She was slick in doing that, but it was cool by me.

I've never had a provider turn my fingers away. It's all about technique.

The one thing I never understood is that when a provider tells you that she does not like FIV, but she likes the penis up in there. Is there something wrong with this picture?

Serpius

saturnsky516 reads

Nothing wrong with that picture, just chalk it up to personal preference. Maybe she has had a rotten experience with fingers and great ones with penises. Who knows. And this technique you use, is it the same one you use on every lady?

....fingers = vagina says no thank you.
.....penis = yes please (depends on the kind too) ...
...maybe I have a particular vagina but there's definitely nothing wrong with it.

And I wish it wouldn't just be trivialized down to if a lady doesn't like it then it's because she never had it right lol. Many have tried and it's been tried enough that I know i'm personally not a fan.

saturnsky422 reads

"And I wish it wouldn't just be trivialized down to if a lady doesn't like it then it's because she never had it right lol. Many have tried and it's been tried enough that I know i'm personally not a fan. "

I could not have said it better myself.

faxinator486 reads

I once had a providerwho didn't allow DATY. Not due to health reasons, but because she doesn't like it. That was new to me because I love to give it, but I respected her rule. We just weren't a good match.

Treat these ladies special because they are.

Some women may just not enjoy it, period.  But I DEFINITELY do.  Many are concerned with rough nails that have sharp edges or hangnails that really do tear us easily.  You may consider getting a manicure before seeing a lady (notice, it has the word "man" in it, therefore it must be "manly,") or picking up some finger condoms (just do a search online).  I'm sure a regular condom would work as well, but again, it's the preference of the provider and you need to ask if she's ok with it after things get going.

wet to start with. Too many guys assume that it just flows like a waterfall after one kiss, and this is not match.com it's pay for play. Takes some time to um...warm up. During daty, I like it rubbed around the outside and put in half way, and please lord NOT your freaking thumb! You're welcome. :)

Posted By: bonaparte
wondering about something. Many providers don't like having a finger inserted. Issue of not wanting to draw blood, or hygiene, or both.
I like doing this during DATY, and for many women it seems to enhance pleasure.

Any way around this? I saw an instructional video on pussy eating (on youporn.com), where the performer wore a glove. Any suggestions?
I'd feel a little weird showing up with a glove, so asking for some ideas here....

prepkid386 reads

Ok so I was a newbie when it happened, but for my first time with a provider, I got up to four fingers in. Mind you that I'm 6 ft tall so my hands are pretty big. I was going for the whole fist until the compliance department in my head kicked in to remind me that this ain't a porno situation. I would have done some damage to you head my fingers found their way in.

Posted By: London Rayne
wet to start with. Too many guys assume that it just flows like a waterfall after one kiss, and this is not match.com it's pay for play. Takes some time to um...warm up. During daty, I like it rubbed around the outside and put in half way, and please lord NOT your freaking thumb! You're welcome. :)
Posted By: bonaparte
wondering about something. Many providers don't like having a finger inserted. Issue of not wanting to draw blood, or hygiene, or both.
I like doing this during DATY, and for many women it seems to enhance pleasure.

Any way around this? I saw an instructional video on pussy eating (on youporn.com), where the performer wore a glove. Any suggestions?
I'd feel a little weird showing up with a glove, so asking for some ideas here....

lungman395 reads

That i can understand. Some guys just start kissing and finger-banging right away. But once and if moist, it should be pleasureable for most women. Just like, i like my dick sucked ( no hands please ) a certain way, women like their kitty touched a certain way. ( It's not friggen Rocket Science ) JUST LISTEN!!
Some women can take a fist, some, 1 finger....it is what it is!!
I think some guys think, hey, your a hooker, gonna do what i want and not what you want....is that true? ( ladies )

saturnsky381 reads

Posted By: lungman
That i can understand. Some guys just start kissing and finger-banging right away. But once and if moist, it should be pleasureable for most women. Just like, i like my dick sucked ( no hands please ) a certain way, women like their kitty touched a certain way. ( It's not friggen Rocket Science ) JUST LISTEN!!
Some women can take a fist, some, 1 finger....it is what it is!!
I think some guys think, hey, your a hooker, gonna do what i want and not what you want....is that true? ( ladies )
Yes it is true. Some guys are like that but thankfully they are in the minority. Most are respectful and will ask or stop if you say no thank you. Not all women in this profession like absolutely everything and it amazes me that some guys actually think we all should.

who would just love me putting my index finger in pussy. She showed me once how to find her G-Spot and how much pressure to apply. She also told me that I should always start slow and ask the lady for how fast to go, and then follow lady's direction...

At 20, this chic knew her body better than most 30 yr old ladies.

If I am turned on, I love a finger rubbed against the cervix...key words are "turned on."

saturnsky487 reads

We are not turned on by all our clients. Nature of the biz. And the funny things is those are the guys that seem to want to jam in a finger and go to town. That's when a lightening fast wrist grab comes in handy.

saturnsky481 reads

Not a fan at work.

There is a book which should be required reading for all DATY fans titled: "She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman" authored by Ian Kerner. It was enlightening to read that the guy should spend at least 20 minutes on foreplay before approaching the vaginal area.  Google the title and you can find it on Amazon.

faxinator347 reads

Hmmm. I always thought that was a given.

Posted By: nycpizzalover
It was enlightening to read that the guy should spend at least 20 minutes on foreplay before approaching the vaginal area.

lungman353 reads

DAMN, do we have to have a book for everything!!!
1 minute, 5, 10, 15, 20..........just listen to the one your havin sex with.
To be good in bed, don't be selfish and listen to your partner.
That being said, this is P4P, your not gonna turn all of these ladies on, that's just the way it is.
As long as she does her job and acts like your a great lover, all is good!!

AnotherPerspective500 reads

I had to read my reviews to make sure I didn't forget . I only do FIV  with civilians , except a  couple  times a provider guided  my finger  in her .  Seemed rude to me ,  like forcing a kiss on a provider who doesn't kiss .  
If you think that's peculiar  , so do I .  
 I saw a provider one time because all her reviews and profile said she didn't kiss ,  to see what sex without kissing was like .   I was disappointed when she started kissing  me .  :-D
 

Posted By: bonaparte
wondering about something. Many providers don't like having a finger inserted. Issue of not wanting to draw blood, or hygiene, or both.
I like doing this during DATY, and for many women it seems to enhance pleasure.

Any way around this? I saw an instructional video on pussy eating (on youporn.com), where the performer wore a glove. Any suggestions?
I'd feel a little weird showing up with a glove, so asking for some ideas here....

faxinator385 reads

When I first started spending time with providers, before the internet existed, I was always told that kissing a provider wasn't allowed. So I never even tried. So believe me, I certainly KNOW what sex without kissing is like!

Posted By: AnotherPerspective
 I saw a provider one time because all her reviews and profile said she didn't kiss ,  to see what sex without kissing was like .   I was disappointed when she started kissing  me .

SinfullySpicy355 reads

It has nothing to do with hygiene or anything. It doesn't matter if you have gloves or not. I just plain do not like fingers there, period! I never have.

World_Boss366 reads

For them to allow you full access to putting a finger inside. If you tried once and she pushes your hand away or moves away, just ignore trying again for a couple minutes and continue with foreplay and daty. Pay attention to the clit and try saying things to get her turned on and "comfortable." As a woman once told me (outside of the hobby) if "a woman doesn't want to cum, no matter what you try she will not" and if she is not cumming she isn't that turned on and your chances of fiv is slim.

And remember guys, not because a woman is wet, means she orgasm.

....doesn't enchance DATY for me. You're any good with just your lips & tongue i'm done 5 mins or less (it's happened lol).  I don't like fingers in my vag...I just don't doesn't get much deeper than that (no pun intended) .....gloves or not no thank you. There's not much of a way around doing something a woman doesn't want, like or allow.  If her profile says no or you ask her and she STILL says no (jic what it says on her profile is NOT incorrect) don't push it.

anonymousfun459 reads


Some like FIV and some don’t.

Some like DATY and Some don’t.

Some like kissing and some don’t.

Some like french kissing some don’t.

Like and dislikes are as personal as fingerprint and genes which makes the wold a whole lot more fun. Besides, if you really know how to use your tongue no finger is necessary.

saturnsky375 reads

Do not try this with non porn actresses. These ladies are being paid to act in this film/video. Try on civilian woman at your own risk.

laurenm398 reads

I bring gloves with me along with covers when I see clients.  The gloves really do come in handy (thank you, thank you, I'll be here all week).

If a gentleman or lady wished to use fingers, I would be happy to offer a glove for their use.  

Lauren

I'll usually end up fucking your hand until it becomes clear that your cock should be there instead.  

True story.

mistressjessica352 reads

I LOVE FIV and I am amazed and disappointed by the number of gentlemen who are all into DATY and expect a lady to have the big O without other stimulation..

NON FIV is the biggest reason why I can't get off with just DATY..
I just figured most gentlemen did not find it comfortable or weird or ?????

I do notice if you have washed your hands, clipped your nails and your general hygeine before play time..You could always try. If the lady does not want to she will tell you..

We can't read your mind and I try not to expect you to read mine..

Good Luck



saturnsky379 reads

If you want it just ask the guy and if he wants to, he can ask the lady...just doing it could end up badly.  Again, we are in this business but we all don't like the same things.

In fact I may even ask for your finger in another opening that is close by.  When I am really turned on that is my very favorite.  Remember this is just me I am speaking of, not other women, so definately don't do that without asking.

HDDOC96339 reads

I have even started getting manicures prior to appointments and spent money on exfoliating products to make my hands softer.  Very few ladies complaining about rough hands or finger nails, I'm a bit surprised.

which i do,,,,,,,,,,men have a g spot in prostate blah b;ah we women dont have it, whatev whatev , its just anatomy, i toss a condom on my finger,,,,,,,or have toys and buy toy covers at amazing, then wash first with saop then a toy cleaner when doine,          maybe ask if you can use a tpy on em,,,,,,,but if a guy doesnt know what he isdoin and point it up while your layn down n he is facn you , oit can fuckn killl..............   make sure you aim sorta down but not too down, i had a dude use tpy on me and god he was aimn up i was layn down facn him ouch, it wasnt fun i kepot tryn to explain n he couldnt do it in a pleasurable way ............i would never insoist on anything they even remotely mention no too though,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,they may do it then feel like angry they gave in later,,,,,,,, i d just make sur eyou read reviews go to ones that like it, . if its done too rough it can ruin the sex after i think........but yeah in answeerr to question i toss a condom over my finger..........before i do prostate play.............

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