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Re: Most BDSM don't want to tell..
jayshap 2 Reviews 1051 reads
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I've put stuff like that in my reviews!

Not all BDSM session revolve around sexual acts, so why do the reviews need physical interaction?

If my client loves golden showers & I supply the best top shelf treats why does the review have to indicate a sexual encounter to be approved?  Not all my sessions require release.  Eveyone's fantasy & needs a different.  I think TER needs to be more open-minded on BDSM & reviews to reflect accurate kinky encounters.   Anyone care to comment, or share?


Most businesses focus on the 20-80 rule.  Focus on the 20% of the business that provides you 80% of the profits.  TER has probably determined that GFE and PSE with a little FBSM is where their focus should be.

sobeslave2978 reads

I think another reason is that most BDSM participants don't feel comfortable about talking about their likes or interests that are not part of " the normal"

Agree with comments of all, but it IS needed and not everyone fits the mainstream, so what would it hurt to at least let the review scale (points) reflect an awesome time with a provider that was exactly what was desired in a meeting?  And.. don't even get me started on the useless "SM" boxes being checked by those who do not do this service...  
As of now, I saw 150 total reads on this little thread, that means at least some people are interested.

Very good point! Most of my encounters center around the fetish activity and not the sexual release. If myself and a client have a mind blowing time with him in  bondage, foot or other sub space, he should be able to review it as such with it being rated based on what sexual activities were performed. Also, it can be misleading for the sex providers as well. What about their encounters that do not include such but had wonderful companionship, conversation and connection?

I think this is the answer :)

Seriously, how many guys here on TER would be willing to put in a review that they were dressed up, red lipstick and all, and spent a good portion of their session on their knees, being of service? And if they leave out session specifics and just discuss general things, what kind of review is that?

I don't worry so much about reviews, in fact, I would almost prefer to not have any. I don't have a high expectation of clients from this website, and I kinda doubt that many of my clients are members here. Since each of my sessions is unique a review of one individual session isn't going to really tell anyone what they can expect in their session. I feed off the energy of my playtoy, and if someone comes to see me and we just don't connect, or we connect on some different level,  their session may be quite different than the one they may have read about here.

Maybe I should create a BDSM/Fetish review site :)

;)
K

I didn't know there was the website or message board for this type of information a breath of fresh air.

Posted By: MistressKiley
I think this is the answer :)

Seriously, how many guys here on TER would be willing to put in a review that they were dressed up, red lipstick and all, and spent a good portion of their session on their knees, being of service? And if they leave out session specifics and just discuss general things, what kind of review is that?

I don't worry so much about reviews, in fact, I would almost prefer to not have any. I don't have a high expectation of clients from this website, and I kinda doubt that many of my clients are members here. Since each of my sessions is unique a review of one individual session isn't going to really tell anyone what they can expect in their session. I feed off the energy of my playtoy, and if someone comes to see me and we just don't connect, or we connect on some different level,  their session may be quite different than the one they may have read about here.

Maybe I should create a BDSM/Fetish review site :)

;)
K

I've put stuff like that in my reviews!

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