We where friends for about year before we started dating. She is the one who taught me how to get laid. She gave this up as she wanted to start a family and we started dating. Truth is I loved her before we ever started dating I just wasn't "in love" with her. The choice to get out was hers. What hurt was the lies and how she manipulated me when she went back to it. The lies nearly destroyed our relationship. The same lies and activities Zoe is talking about.
As for how unique I am, I am not so sure. I have met a few SO's of providers and have talked with others. They all had jobs, most of them are swingers or providers themselves. They all seen to love their SO. I don't know what they are like behind close doors and neither do you.
I know many ladies have had bad experiences. I know there are abusive pimps that play the SO card. But lie not all escorts are abused crack heads, not all SO of providers are out to hurt their SO's in some way. I doubt I am unique. We are out there.