Marcella is the exception rather than the rule, when it comes to providers.One reason why I love woman is that they are all different.Blondes ,brunettes,redheads,young or mature, they all have certain appealing qualities to me.It is not only there looks either, it is there personalities that does it for me too.
Having said that,I will say I do have a short list of those I choose to see.Although I haven't seen her yet,Courtney is on that list.
I suggest you try and attune yourself to there different stlyes
and find beauty in all you choose.
Where do these reviews come from? Saw Courtney on Eros, read the reviews posted here, "Model Material" "ATF" "Really Hot"...34B-24-34?, 30 yrs old? The pics on Eros look great, plus the reviews, Boy was I surprised, I don't think this was the same woman posted or reviewed, if it was the pics were taken a long time ago, and the reviews are way off. I'm learning the hard way, Don't get me wrong, she was nice enough, personality wise, but so's my sons CCD teacher, but definiatley not what was expected! Would have been better if my expectations and inticipation were not so high.
I can't even say that I took one for the team!
The Newbie.
do your own review, then click the problem report button on one of her reviews and submit an honest report about specifically what you felt was overrated and why. the staff will often update/change things like "pics not representative" etc
Well, I wrote one of those reviews. I've looked at all of her reviews and all I can say is what I said is what I felt, just like the others said what they felt. We obviously don't have the same tastes in women, nor the same expectations, wants or desires. Just think, if we all saw things the same way, all thought the same way, all did the same things, what a boring world this would be. Go take a look at some of the other, often reviewed ladies and you'll see that most have had good, bad and mediocre reviews. I think sometimes, hobbiests, especially newbies forget or don't understand that a review is the reflection of what one individual experienced during one instance of time.
Tell ya what, find a provider you absolutely enjoyed, meets all of your expectations and post a review of her. I'll bet money inside of a month someone will post a message like yours questioning your tastes and sincerity. There are reasons I rarely, if ever, post reviews of anyone I see and this post is one of them.
So, post your review and post it honestly. Express what YOU saw and how YOU felt and what expectations YOU had that were met or not met. The most wonderful thing about being an individual in a free society is we don't all have to think alike.
I guess I'm not questioning other peoples rights or tastes, as much as, questioning if I saw the same provider as pictured and reviewed, My first and only other experience was with Marcella, Between the pics on her web-site and the 3 pages of reviews here on TER, Just about all 9's & 10's, I had set a certain expectation as to what I was getting, She far exceeded anything I could have imagined, I guess in a way, She spoiled me, I assumed that my next experience would be as was with her, She is awesome, just like her pics and reviews, I have repeated and will repeat again, sorry if I have offended anyone, It was not my intention, I have herd mentioned of "Bait and Switch" Maybe this was the case here, I don't know enough yet about this hobby, that’s why I end as "The Newbie".
Marcella is the exception rather than the rule, when it comes to providers.One reason why I love woman is that they are all different.Blondes ,brunettes,redheads,young or mature, they all have certain appealing qualities to me.It is not only there looks either, it is there personalities that does it for me too.
Having said that,I will say I do have a short list of those I choose to see.Although I haven't seen her yet,Courtney is on that list.
I suggest you try and attune yourself to there different stlyes
and find beauty in all you choose.
Hi ozz9, I wouldn't know if there was a bait and switch, but the pic on the web site is her. Of course, her face is blurred but I found her very attractive, obviously.
Let me clarify some things.... first your going to find a lot of 'hobbiests' that classify ladies they see based on looks, cup size, age, birth marks, acts they will perform or won't perform. Then you'll find the other end of the spectrum, the hobbiest that will look for a lady to 'connect' with, a lady he enjoys seeing for her personality, charm, wit and could care less about most physical attributes or acts performed. And then there are others somewhere in the middle.
Somewhere in that range, each of us finds what our own definition of a GFE is. Unlike some, I don't believe a lady gets a GFE rating by whether or not she will perform certain acts and how many times she will perform them in an hour. To me, a GFE is about the ladies personality and if/how we connect. As smitty said, except for one bad experience in the last 3+ years, I have always found something about each lady that I have seen that I enjoy or appreciate. There is always something that makes each lady and experience with that lady special.
I also believe there is a lady or two out there that each of us has at one time or another run into, or will run into, that turns our head (the big one) and helps us realize there is more to this hobby than an hour in the hotel room performing the horizontal mombo. I know I have found one or two in my time, including one lady that I currently see regularly that I consider a very good friend, confidant and part time drinking buddy aside from being my ATF lol.
I don't want to spend any more time on my soapbox here wasting bandwidth, let's just sum this up as, the older I get, the more gray things become and the less things look black and white.
Enjoy, stay safe... happy hobbying and I apologize if I was a bit oversensitive......
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Great points, Magnum. I myself prefer Asian providers. The first one I met was Tanilla Chang, whom I think has either retired or gone "under the radar". This woman was the ultimate GFE, the most mind-blowing experience that I have had in this hobby. Talk about spoiling someone!
I've been with Ma-ling on several occasions. The first was OK, but there was something about her that made me want to see her again. I think personality had something to do with it. For those who only know her through the boards; she is quite a different person in person. 8-)
I recently met with the girl known on the Eros site as Asian Kisses. She was accurate to her pictures, but I was uncertain whether I should post a review of her. I didn't want a backlash if my experience was not repeated for someone else. In the end, I did post a review which was:Looks above average, nice time. That doesn't mean that the next guy will say the same thing. Try to take all the reviews together, filter out the really high and really low ones, and take a chabce if you feel she's worth it!
kman
From what I read here, my understanding of your situation is one that I have had a few times myself.
I have read reviews that state the pics are real and when the woman shows up, I don't even recognize her. I have been very lucky that in these instances, the woman was in fact the person reviewed, yet the pictures are definetly NOT of her!
And, luckily the events that took place, were enjoyable. The initial shock of a completely different woman than that in the pics goes away and we both have a good time.