You husband was not a stranger that you know is willing to break the law and social norms. I know more than a few ladies that has been raped and/or robbed by clients. Not every guy in this game is a good guy. escorting is not a safe profession. A child should not ever be exposed to those kinds of risks, ever. There is always a choice.

And I do understand poverty, I have gotten more than a few meals out of a dumpster as I could not buy food and there was no social services in the town that had the park that I slept in as I had no bed. The lady can find other work, millions do, hire a sitter, or just do outcall. There is always a choice in life.