...the point Lina. Just want to point out that though providers can and many certainly do pay for a full VIP membership they do have to option of the free limited VIP that is for providers. It allows the full use of the PM system and allows you to see the full content of your reviews.

I don't say this to argue whether the OP is valid or not simply to point out that it's not necessary for providers to buy VIP.

I do agree with inicky that since the changes my perception is that there are more ladies on the boards now. Yes, they do get flamed from time to time but they aren't the only ones.

I agree with the OP that nothing will be solved here and that a lot of the drama is completely unnecessary.