it's not going to happen. There are people who just don't have it in them to be cordial and you won't change them or the aliases they use to do so. Everyone has a right to post here, all posts are welcome, so you should not let others intimidate you into being silent. If you want to post...post. If you are afraid of what someone on a hooker board thinks about you or what you have to say..don't be. Why? These are people you might meet or may never see. They are paying for a service or giving you references. That's where it ends. This is not real life, never will be so don't take it so personally.
Just as there are many bold and outspoken people, there are also overly sensitive cry babies who expect to have their ass kissed by people they don't even know. This is not "our" or "your" board. It belongs to TER Admin. We support it financially (some of us) and by posting to be funny or help others. It's a discussion board that takes all kinds, and that's never going to change. In fact, some might mock this thread just to do so.