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Re: Pet Peeves
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Posted By: serpius
Hey AmberLuv,

When it comes to providers, I have 3 pet peeves:

1. Leaving the cell phone on AND answering it when it rings DURING the session. Not good!! Turn off the fookin' phone during the session. You can live without the phone for the duration of the session. If you can't, get out of the provider business. It's that simple.

THIS IS VERY DISRESPECTFUL IN MY OPINION. I ALWAYS TURN MY PHONE ON SILENT BEFORE A SESSION BEGINS OUT OF RESPECT.

2. Poor hygiene - Cleaniness is next to Godliness - Enough said.

I CONCUR

3. Leaving the TV and/or music on during the session. I did NOT pay the provider to watch TV while we are having the session. Same goes for the music. ASK the hobbyist FIRST if they want either one to be on during the session, otherwise, leave it off. The provider has PLENTY of time outside of the session to watch TV and/or listen to music.


When it comes to society in general, I have 3 pet peeves:

1. Discrimination against handicapped people. I am hard of hearing and you won't believe the reaction people get when I tell them that I am hearing impaired. Some walk the other way, some start talking real LOUD and over emphasizing their lips... they end up looking like buttheads doing that. Some will ask me if I went to a "special school" for handicapped people. NO, I did not! I was mainstreamed just like everyone else who is not handicapped and I have 2 college degress to show for it, too.

2. Lack of common sense. It's amazing to watch people do really, really stupid things without thinking about the consequences of their actions. One small example: Going 70 MPH in a 45 MPH construction zone and end up getting into an accident because of speeding. Yea, I witnessed that one a few weeks ago. The speeding moron walked away without a scratch whereas the person he rear-ended went into an ambulance. I wanted to shoot that moron.

PEOPLE WITHOUT COMMON SENSE FRUSTRATE ME SO MUCH AGH. HOW DO YOU NOT HAVE COMMON SENSE?

3. Scam artists. I really shouldn't use the word 'artist', but I witnessed my 78 mother-in-law almost become a victim of a scam artist. She almost lost $10,000 to this thief. Luckily for her, I was aware of the situation and reported the scam to the appropriate authorities who took care of that scam artist who was based in Colorado of all places. The trial is pending in that case.

UNFORTUNATELY THERE ARE SCAM ARTISTS ALL OVER THIS WORLD. RECENTLY SOMEONE ORDERED A TICKET USING MY BANK CARD TO PURCHASE A PLANE TICKET TO RUSSIA WTF! THANK GOD BANKS ARE FDIC INSURED!

Serpius
Posted By: Amberluv1
Simple question, answers of varying length.

What really ticks you off in your life?

For me, it's the sheer amount of disrespect people seem to have for one another. It's one thing to hate a person because of a valid reason, but to hate a person for no reason at all. Give people a chance, please!

Simple question, answers of varying length.

What really ticks you off in your life?

For me, it's the sheer amount of disrespect people seem to have for one another. It's one thing to hate a person because of a valid reason, but to hate a person for no reason at all. Give people a chance, please!

If they are unhappy with their job, then they should find a new one. Some providers I've meet put no effort into the session, but treat hobbyist as though they are a number. This is typical of the BackPage providers. Some charge $200 an hour, and are unappreciative of their clients. If it wasn't for their clients, they wouldn't make $200 an hour. They should be grateful that someone would even call them and spend that much for only one hour of their time. If I had a business, and I made $200 an hour, and only worked for five hours, I would be grateful for it, and put some effort into the session. Instead of just laying around and rushing people out the door.

As it relates to life, I also dislike ungrateful people. Even those that don't have material possessions and a lot of money. At least be grateful for what you have. Some people have no sense of humility. They should put their egos aside. Oh, I also dislike ethnocentric people too.

Posted By: McDonald000
If they are unhappy with their job, then they should find a new one. Some providers I've meet put no effort into the session, but treat hobbyist as though they are a number. This is typical of the BackPage providers. Some charge $200 an hour, and are unappreciative of their clients. If it wasn't for their clients, they wouldn't make $200 an hour. They should be grateful that someone would even call them and spend that much for only one hour of their time. If I had a business, and I made $200 an hour, and only worked for five hours, I would be grateful for it, and put some effort into the session. Instead of just laying around and rushing people out the door.

As it relates to life, I also dislike ungrateful people. Even those that don't have material possessions and a lot of money. At least be grateful for what you have. Some people have no sense of humility. They should put their egos aside. Oh, I also dislike ethnocentric people too.

Posted By: McDonald000


As it relates to life, I also dislike ungrateful people. Even those that don't have material possessions and a lot of money. At least be grateful for what you have. Some people have no sense of humility. They should put their egos aside. Oh, I also dislike ethnocentric people too.
I've heard some awful stories about some of the providers of backpage. A lot of hobbist tend to stay away from providers without reviews & to be honest I don't blame them.

I hate ungrateful people as well. It is very peculiar nature of the human being to forget the good deeds of others. Like example, if a poor man become rich with the help of his friend once he become rich he forgets the help of his friend.

These days, with social media, anyone can bully a person over the internet. So, we have a name for them, and, they are called E Thugs. Which means, they can talk trash and bully someone over the internet, but, not in real life, because they know that the physical world is too dangerous. Anyone can talk trash and bully someone over the internet, but, they won't do it face to face or in person. That's an E thug. Urban Diction

Posted By: McDonald000
These days, with social media, anyone can bully a person over the internet. So, we have a name for them, and, they are called E Thugs. Which means, they can talk trash and bully someone over the internet, but, not in real life, because they know that the physical world is too dangerous. Anyone can talk trash and bully someone over the internet, but, they won't do it face to face or in person. That's an E thug. Urban Diction

lmaoo kmsl

this was the meet uP GROUNDS FOR THEM. I THINK EVERY TIME I RESPOND TO A THREAD THEY JUMO ME.

I can pretty much deal with everything except for people who self delude themselves to extent that they are living in alternate universe.

Deliberate manipulation of others is another pet peeve of mine.

Lina

serpius233 reads

Hey AmberLuv,

When it comes to providers, I have 3 pet peeves:

1. Leaving the cell phone on AND answering it when it rings DURING the session. Not good!! Turn off the fookin' phone during the session. You can live without the phone for the duration of the session. If you can't, get out of the provider business. It's that simple.

2. Poor hygiene - Cleaniness is next to Godliness - Enough said.

3. Leaving the TV and/or music on during the session. I did NOT pay the provider to watch TV while we are having the session. Same goes for the music. ASK the hobbyist FIRST if they want either one to be on during the session, otherwise, leave it off. The provider has PLENTY of time outside of the session to watch TV and/or listen to music.

When it comes to society in general, I have 3 pet peeves:

1. Discrimination against handicapped people. I am hard of hearing and you won't believe the reaction people get when I tell them that I am hearing impaired. Some walk the other way, some start talking real LOUD and over emphasizing their lips... they end up looking like buttheads doing that. Some will ask me if I went to a "special school" for handicapped people. NO, I did not! I was mainstreamed just like everyone else who is not handicapped and I have 2 college degress to show for it, too.

2. Lack of common sense. It's amazing to watch people do really, really stupid things without thinking about the consequences of their actions. One small example: Going 70 MPH in a 45 MPH construction zone and end up getting into an accident because of speeding. Yea, I witnessed that one a few weeks ago. The speeding moron walked away without a scratch whereas the person he rear-ended went into an ambulance. I wanted to shoot that moron.

3. Scam artists. I really shouldn't use the word 'artist', but I witnessed my 78 mother-in-law almost become a victim of a scam artist. She almost lost $10,000 to this thief. Luckily for her, I was aware of the situation and reported the scam to the appropriate authorities who took care of that scam artist who was based in Colorado of all places. The trial is pending in that case.

Serpius

Posted By: Amberluv1
Simple question, answers of varying length.

What really ticks you off in your life?

For me, it's the sheer amount of disrespect people seem to have for one another. It's one thing to hate a person because of a valid reason, but to hate a person for no reason at all. Give people a chance, please!

Posted By: serpius
Hey AmberLuv,

When it comes to providers, I have 3 pet peeves:

1. Leaving the cell phone on AND answering it when it rings DURING the session. Not good!! Turn off the fookin' phone during the session. You can live without the phone for the duration of the session. If you can't, get out of the provider business. It's that simple.

THIS IS VERY DISRESPECTFUL IN MY OPINION. I ALWAYS TURN MY PHONE ON SILENT BEFORE A SESSION BEGINS OUT OF RESPECT.

2. Poor hygiene - Cleaniness is next to Godliness - Enough said.

I CONCUR

3. Leaving the TV and/or music on during the session. I did NOT pay the provider to watch TV while we are having the session. Same goes for the music. ASK the hobbyist FIRST if they want either one to be on during the session, otherwise, leave it off. The provider has PLENTY of time outside of the session to watch TV and/or listen to music.


When it comes to society in general, I have 3 pet peeves:

1. Discrimination against handicapped people. I am hard of hearing and you won't believe the reaction people get when I tell them that I am hearing impaired. Some walk the other way, some start talking real LOUD and over emphasizing their lips... they end up looking like buttheads doing that. Some will ask me if I went to a "special school" for handicapped people. NO, I did not! I was mainstreamed just like everyone else who is not handicapped and I have 2 college degress to show for it, too.

2. Lack of common sense. It's amazing to watch people do really, really stupid things without thinking about the consequences of their actions. One small example: Going 70 MPH in a 45 MPH construction zone and end up getting into an accident because of speeding. Yea, I witnessed that one a few weeks ago. The speeding moron walked away without a scratch whereas the person he rear-ended went into an ambulance. I wanted to shoot that moron.

PEOPLE WITHOUT COMMON SENSE FRUSTRATE ME SO MUCH AGH. HOW DO YOU NOT HAVE COMMON SENSE?

3. Scam artists. I really shouldn't use the word 'artist', but I witnessed my 78 mother-in-law almost become a victim of a scam artist. She almost lost $10,000 to this thief. Luckily for her, I was aware of the situation and reported the scam to the appropriate authorities who took care of that scam artist who was based in Colorado of all places. The trial is pending in that case.

UNFORTUNATELY THERE ARE SCAM ARTISTS ALL OVER THIS WORLD. RECENTLY SOMEONE ORDERED A TICKET USING MY BANK CARD TO PURCHASE A PLANE TICKET TO RUSSIA WTF! THANK GOD BANKS ARE FDIC INSURED!

Serpius
Posted By: Amberluv1
Simple question, answers of varying length.

What really ticks you off in your life?

For me, it's the sheer amount of disrespect people seem to have for one another. It's one thing to hate a person because of a valid reason, but to hate a person for no reason at all. Give people a chance, please!

Leaving the cell on and actually using it during the performance.  Then meeting the guy on the way out as he is coming in.  Happened last visit to a particular provider in Cinti. OH last time.  Spent ton of money for that abuse.  Shame on me.

I just may write a new song...

All we are saying, is give people a chance!
Please!
All we are saying, is give people a chance!
Yea, Yea, Yea!

Help!
I need somebody to
Help
me with another verse.

Come together & we can work this out.....

I never could make out most of the versus on this, and now your post got me wondering.

Not bad sound quality for a hotel room.

followme161 reads

You have a lovely pair of peeves and I wood love to pet them.


Thank you
2012 = 28

Posted By: followme
You have a lovely pair of peeves and I wood love to pet them.


Thank you
2012 = 28
LOL WHO ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?

followme130 reads

You


Thank you
2012 = 28

The sanctimonious, the hypocrites, liars thieves and decievers.  

  I guess that is why I never had any desire to be in politics. :D

Yep, cheap shot, but they REALLY do tick me off...

NO!!! I love them!!

But seriously I agree with Mac, it amazes me what happens to some of these ladies. If they are so disgusted by what they do then they need to find a new profession. There is no excuse for staying in this one if you just can't enjoy it. The disconnect they apparently are doing shows and the gentlemen are feeling it.

Oh my pet peeve...smelly people on the Metrorail!!!

Posted By: kendradc2011
NO!!! I love them!!

Oh my pet peeve...smelly people on the Metrorail!!!
I hate smelly people in general yuck!

How can you have issues with them?

(Red beets are the only ones I can't get my mind around.)

The problem is many people don't know how to prepare them in an appetizing way.  Many people were raised on vegetables that were boiled until they were just a pile of tasteless mush with most of the vitamins and minerals washed away too.

Steam them (a microwave is best), and then use your imagination as to how to season them with various spices.  Even cook up a sauce to serve with them (But not too much, you don't want to over power them with high calorie stuff.)

A bit of Newman's Italian dressing on some steamed veggies is great.  Or just use some fresh ground pepper.  Pepper is a very healthy choice too.

Here's a little tune to help you appreciate your little green and yellow buddies.

My palate had been brainwashed by the processed and fast food industry since my youth.  Reaching middle age my metabolism wasn't burning the calories it used too, and the pounds and inches were becoming noticable and problematic.
I began regularly requesting/substituting veggies or fruit for the ubiquitous French Fry accompaniment of many restaurant meals about a year ago. I then soon began to ask if the "cheese" could be left off my fast food "Bacon & Cheese" Burgers. Then I found myself also requesting "Hold the mayo!".

 I LOVE hamburgers, beef in general, and pints of crafted Beer, I have cut neither from my regular diet. But by scarfing down some steamed veggies or fruit rather than fried potatoes with my entre, or nibbling on carrots & celery rather than cheese poppers or nachos at the micro-brewery I can now again fit COMFORTABLY into my racing leathers, and any lady will tell you; "Leather don't lie!"  

It irks me when people on this board condemn others for engaging or not engaging in certain acts. There is no need to condemn those that chose to play safer than you or do sexual acts that you would not preform. There is no reason for hostility unless they are trying to force their ideas on others. Yet I have lost count of the number of posts on CBJ or bashes on people because they like piss play.

It irritates me to know end when people try to go around others screening. Women who manipulate their reviews scores, over Photoshop their photos, or engage in tricks to get guys to see them that would otherwise skip them. Guys that think it is OK to lie to providers because they feel their safe. This stuff bothers me. I see t all the time on this board.

The narcissistic elitist attitudes some in this game have. People thinking they are better than others based on as little as where they shop or advertise, weather they are buying or selling, how many reviews a person has, how long a person has been playing or any other thing that has nothing to do with the real value of a person. People that feel everyone else should take all the risk. Guys that attack women in their reviews because something they want is not offered or she isn't his physical type yet her photos are accurate and her menu is established. Or those providers that publicly blacklist for the dumbest reasons like a simple NCNS. This board is full of this stuff as is the the hobby.

I am done venting. You asked, I answered.

because, I am not concerned or care about things I cannot do anything about.

If you can do something about it, do it. If not, you can be concerned about all you want till it (whatever it is) but nothing is going to change, especially other’s behavior, opinion, political views, food, clothing, rudeness, civility or lack of it, disrespect and the list continues……..

I do the same thing with my work keeps out of the gossip whine and life at work is a whole lot better.

let thier dogs poop every where n dont bring bags to pick up.  I stepped in some ones dogs poops walkn my sog in front my buildin last winter, the thought of cleanin another dogs crap of my boot grossed me out so i tossed the boots...........................!                 it also woulda been a giant poop mess in sink tryn to scrub dog poo so mi tossed them. and regretted it since they were nice.
so soon as spring hit i went out with gardening gloves and .........................yes i did it i cleaned up all the cigarette butts n dog poop in front of my apt buildin,,,,,,,myself. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,couldnt deal with it anymore, .............


I don’t know where you live but in the area where I am many of the Apartment Complexes does not allow pets. The discourage this by high non-refundable deposits which scales according the type and weight of the dog or cat.

You are not for that matter no one is going to reason with those who doesn’t know basic civility. I agree with you, civility in the country is in rapid decline. People seem to believe they can do whatever stupidity they want to engage because of their convoluted belief of freedom. In reality, freedom only exists when every exercise their freedom in way that doesn’t stop others from exercising theirs.

Simple lesson in civility most people have forgotten.

Posted By: angelexotic
let thier dogs poop every where n dont bring bags to pick up.  I stepped in some ones dogs poops walkn my sog in front my buildin last winter, the thought of cleanin another dogs crap of my boot grossed me out so i tossed the boots...........................!                 it also woulda been a giant poop mess in sink tryn to scrub dog poo so mi tossed them. and regretted it since they were nice.
so soon as spring hit i went out with gardening gloves and .........................yes i did it i cleaned up all the cigarette butts n dog poop in front of my apt buildin,,,,,,,myself. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,couldnt deal with it anymore, .............

Tossing cigarette butts out their car window or on the ground as they're entering a building.

When a new register opens and they say "Next person in line please" and the a**hole at the back of the line runs up to the front.

Loud, obnoxious morons at sporting events.

People that talk on their cell phones in elevators and bathrooms!!!

People that think they're the ONLY one in the store and leave their buggy in the middle of the aisle.

The list is endless....

call u on the phone and are hateful. ( when they brag in their ads that they are sweet ) Believe me, SOME are not NICE at all!!!
Another thing, when others here on the boards, attack another person's character. ( none of us REALLY know each other and the lives we lead )

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