Hey Bigniplover,
The first one you mentioned is Stress Out, not Stressed Out, and it is on Winchester Rd., a bit west of the 15 frwy.. They normally run a small line add in the North County Times classifieds under massage. The ad offers a $10.00 discount, which brings the entrance fee for a 30 min. session down from $50.00 to $40.00. In the past, they ran the ad but without the discount; back then, the entrance fee was only $40.00. Maybe they are gauging the effectiveness of their advertisements, who knows? Nevertheless, the place used to be great! I'm not quite sure about the current situation - as I've not been there recently - but I'm confident that you'll not be disappointed. On vists in the past, the masseuses - either Asian or Hispanic and sometimes even White - were definetly service oriented. The standard MP protocol was followed -  back rub, butt rub, the role-over and then on to the good stuff. But, like any other similar establishment, the masseuses there worry about LE and are therefore cautious. So before the good stuff starts, it is imperative that the masseuse rules out LE affiliation. The palce is certainly worth a try.

Golden Touch is the other place you mentioned and the only other MP in the area. It is located on Front street, if I'm not mistaken, and It also used to be service oriented, although the masseuses there were less attractive than the ones at Stress Out. You may want to use a bit more caution here though, as this parlor was shut down for a while and reopened only a short time ago. I'm not really sure why it was shut down - but one can only imagine. This one may be worth a try, but I recommend Stress Out for starters.
Good Luck
-Nolie