It's not that a guy is taking the easy way out to lose his virginity. It's the he may have been turned down over and over and over and over for just a simple date. I have friends who have been turned down 20 times before they ever got a girl to say yes to a date... much less a romp in the hay. I have a friend who struggled for years to find a girlfriend. He was 28 and decided he didn't want to be a virgin anymore and hired a pro. Should he have waited? Maybe. But, I couldn't fault him for being 28 and having faced so much rejection that he just wanted to get it over with. He took a way out, but it was definitely not easy.