I think if a hobbyist has a long history of reviews, board contributions and several white list referrals from reputable/well established providers, it should definitely help in the verification process. Its usually why I send a PM to a provider in addition to the initial E-mail when I am looking to set up an appointment. I want them to see my TER history. I understand that ladies get MANY requests from hobbyists (most of them I am sure a waste of time) to set up  meetings. At least knowing that I am an established hobbyist (with reviews and credible referrals), should give the provider an initial peace of mind where she would want to continue with the verification process.

Now each lady has to then determine if they want to engage in more screening beyond knowing my review history/white list references. Many ladies accept my TER credentials as acceptable screening and we then proceed with the appointment details. I am certainly not bothered or offended in any way if they want something else (i.e a spefic provider reference or employment #, etc.) I am always happy to oblige. The goal is to make the lady completely comfortable where she is excited when you walk through the door. The last thing you ever want is the lady to be anxious before the meeeting, wanting to know if she screened you thoroughly enough.