I feel like I have been there and done that.  I had seen a particular provider that was 110% my type!!!!
All her features (physically) and i really enjoyed to be around her  I started to get feelings as it is only natural unless
You are a complete deviant.  What I found most helpfull was two things :
1. You have to keep reminding yourself that this is her job
And obviously she is really good at it!!! But she views you as a
CLIENT and that is fine and should stay that way for both parties.  There is no reason that your client provider relationship can't continue.

2. Now you have to see other providers with similar traits.  As many as you can see.
All different but similar in look and attitude.  Once you see that there are other great professionals out
There that will instill similar feelings you will understand
That this world is purely FANTASY!!!!

Good luck and don't go broke fixing this monetary problem.
You'll be fine....... And you will continue to have fun in the game.