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StLouis_55 1169 reads
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I can't speak for "alot of us" but for me adding a male to the mix might be quite arousing as long as he is tone and muscular and not like me :). Tormenting both a female and a man at the same time and seeing who I cold "break" first has always been one of my fantasies. I would want a scenario though where the male would already be tied down and restrained when I showed up for the appointment.

Tobi Telford3563 reads

So I've been thinking of offering BDSM services (I'm a sub), but I have no idea how to go about doing that. Seems like there are a lot more advertising/networking options for Dommes (correct me if I'm wrong, please). Any tips would be greatly appreciated. :)

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Foodyguy1772 reads

Might be a good source of information.  View her site and email her for ideas.  No cut and paste allowed.  LOL

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Tobi Telford1576 reads

Good call. Thank you!

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mrfisher1802 reads

Bad things can happen especially in the physical realm.  I've become fond of you and would hate to see anything happen to you.

Start out with the role playing stuff before you let anyone tie you up, in any case.

Choose your partners very wisely.

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Tobi Telford1976 reads

Aww. You all are too sweet to me! I promise I'll approach it with as much trepidation as I have everything else. :)

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Sexylittlesubkat1539 reads

Shoot me an email, and I'm happy to help. I started out on my own and made many mistakes, but since I've learned to screen like a bull dog (both info screening and intuitive), I've had wonderful experiences with amazing people. It can be done!

[email protected]

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Tobi Telford1604 reads

You've got mail! Thank you! :)

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Artemusgordon1406 reads

Hope to hear more about your services in the future BadCollegeGirl- I love sub's and I don't seem to hear much from about subs on this board! Look forward to possibly meeting you in the future!

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Tobi Telford1626 reads

Glad to hear that! :)

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godofredus6662017 reads

If you ever make it to Chicago, please let me know.  I will be glad to work with you.  I have seen submissann - she has very strict rules as a sub and is worth getting her input before you do anything.  

There is a very heavy site called slavefarm and you might check it out to see what dangers might be on the road.

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Capri_Jake2089 reads

If your Submissive and wish to ad Submissive activities to your menu may I suggest?

Depending on what activities will be available, IE: if tight restrictive bondage like to the bedposts(yum)
is offered you may want to team up with another provider to have them present for safety, at least till you build up enough repeat clients for your Submissive services. Or team up with with another provider when the client requests to tie you down.

Create a separate page on your website for your Submissive services detailing
*Activities avail
*Activities not avail
*toys /equipment avail
*pain tolerance levels avail
*rates

Also have a separate photo album with pictures including / related to Submissive activities. 95% of our Clients are 1st timers in exploring bondage / bdsm. A majority of the time we get comments from both 1st timers and experienced clients in bdsm that one of the main reasons they booked an appt was because of the bdsm photos. Mentioning that a lot of providers advertise they offer Submission or Domination but never have any photo related activities or maybe just a couple photos of them holding a whip or only in a leather outfit, leaving them to wonder if they just threw the service up on there website
for extra appts and that they may not really enjoy Sub / Dom activities or have restraints, whips etc.

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Tobi Telford1379 reads

These are great tips, thank you! I'm in the process of getting a new website (just waiting on the designer to finish up) but I'll be sure to include an additional page just for this!

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john_nyork1845 reads

Yes.. Your pics (wow) do make it much more disireable. I agree, Providers that advertise Bdsm services but don't have pics to back it up just don't interest me.

Looks like Jake had an "arousing" session in Chicago. :)

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
These are great tips, thank you! I'm in the process of getting a new website (just waiting on the designer to finish up) but I'll be sure to include an additional page just for this!

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Capri_Jake1683 reads

I'm glad you enjoy the pics. A lot of them are taken off webcam videos and are a little fuzzy. Yes a very arousing and HARD time in Chicago. A few more pics from that session will be posted on the Website (S & M page also) today or tomorrow.

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JLee5671413 reads

Interesting thing about the idea of a submissive provider is that of all the ladies involved in the business, including plain vanilla escorts and dominants, she would be the one who is almost certainly not doing it just for the money.

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Tobi Telford1694 reads

I'd have to agree with that. :)

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justgivemeareason1424 reads

And an attractive BDSM lady is very rare!!!!

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Tobi Telford1939 reads

Really? The ones I've seen have all been gorgeous!

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Cinnead2043 reads

If you do start offering BDSM,, I would agree with a previous response, and suggest you have another female provider in the room for safety. I think a male being present would put a lot of us off, but a female would not. Especially if she assists. And PLEASE come to the DC/MD/VA area if you do.

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StLouis_551170 reads

I can't speak for "alot of us" but for me adding a male to the mix might be quite arousing as long as he is tone and muscular and not like me :). Tormenting both a female and a man at the same time and seeing who I cold "break" first has always been one of my fantasies. I would want a scenario though where the male would already be tied down and restrained when I showed up for the appointment.

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StillNHiding1467 reads

If I was going for a GFE session having a male present would certainly turn me off but if I was going for a BDSM / PSE session having a Submissive male present and being able to test his limits would be interesting to explore. More than likely the the female will allow a lite to medium pain threshold but with a little "pre bartering" before the appointment it is more likely to talk her into allowing a high level of punishment administered to the male.

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john_nyork1267 reads

Same with me, if I'm horny and in the mood for some female companionship I'm not interested in having a male provider present but when I occassional get in my kinky bondage state of mind a lot of different fantasies enter my mind. Never had any thoughts of making out with another male or having another male touch me but my "kinky mind" has fantasied about a scenario where me and a female tie down a straight dominant male against his will( by tricking him or drugging him), then torturing and edging him.

I've also noticed female providers that offer BDSM with a male have more reasonable then with two female providers. So perhaps offer both, sessions with another female or with a male.

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