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Re:Fat Guy With a Little Dick
bigniplover 14265 reads
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Providers don't care how big your belly is, only how big your wallet is!  Providers don't care how long your dick is either.  They would rather you did'nt even have one so there would be less work on their part.  Some of you will say providers care about your looks, talent, and how you please them.  You are only fooling yourself.  Some providers will say they care about their clients.  That is pure B/S.  Providers only care about the green stuff, and are happy to take it no matter how big our bellies are or how short our dicks are.

Okay, okay, stop laughing.  This is a serious question.  I'm a guy in his thirties who is pretty insecure about his body and I guess I'm looking for a little perspective.

I'm tall and fairly muscular, but I have a pretty big belly.  I'm really insecure about it and I wonder if it makes a difference for providers in enthusiasm.  Do you have trouble really "getting into it" with bigger guys?  I read all these reviews about providers who seem to really connect with a guy and enjoy themselves and I'm wondering if that happens as often when the guy has a somewhat flawed body?

And while we're on the subject of physical insecurities, I have a question about penis size.  I don't spend a lot of time looking at other guys, so I don't know how I measure up.  I'm barely there when soft and just over six inches when hard.  Is this small, average, or what?

As you can guess, I'm having a real self-flagellating day.  Somebody give me some blunt, honest feedback please.

gumby00713896 reads

You sound normal to me. I'm no Mel Gibson, but I feel good about myself, and that's what's important. As far as what the providers like, I'm curious about that also. Good luck.

bigniplover14266 reads

Providers don't care how big your belly is, only how big your wallet is!  Providers don't care how long your dick is either.  They would rather you did'nt even have one so there would be less work on their part.  Some of you will say providers care about your looks, talent, and how you please them.  You are only fooling yourself.  Some providers will say they care about their clients.  That is pure B/S.  Providers only care about the green stuff, and are happy to take it no matter how big our bellies are or how short our dicks are.

TrueGFE11521 reads

First of all, let me say that—from your self-reported measurements (and I know all you guys measure your little friend periodically throughout your lives…some of you do it even daily LOL) I don’t think you qualify as belonging in the tiny, tweezer-necessitating category. In fact, I’ve read several times (though I can’t recall where, at this time) that the “average” American man measures 5.5 inches hard…


    Also, I am a firm (no pun intended) believer of the fact that men (and yes I do mean straight men) are far more preoccupied with their size as well as the size of other men than any women could ever be! The real male self-asked question should be (in my opinion,) “how well can I DATY.” But I guess that all depends on whether you’d rather hear, “Wow—it’s so big!” or “Wow—that felt so good!”


    Regarding body type-—I guess that’s just a personal preference; but personally—-I am less attracted to super-thin men who are naturally of a non-muscular build. (And no-—I don’t mean that I'd only truly enjoy the company of WWF superstars LOL-—but just that I tend to find those of a naturally slight build less attractive. An average-to-solid build (with a belly, or not) falls much more within the lines of my personal preferences.


    However, regardless of body type preferences—-I think that someone who is clean, enthusiastic, comfortable with himself, and truly enjoys giving and receiving pleasure would be someone with whom I could have a wonderful, mutually satisfactory, involving time—-no matter what his body type may be. :)

Ashlee of SoCal




-- Modified on 5/31/2002 5:31:32 PM

(HUGE grin!)

Thank you, Ashlee, that was exactly what I wanted to hear!  I guess you can just get stuck into a rut without a little outside confirmation sometimes.  

And you get all sorts of positive feedback and ego stroking from the woman in your life, but she has an interest in making you feel good.  Remember, these are the same people who fake orgasms to make you feel like a stud.  

I've just had enough girls look at me and say "Oh, you're so BIG" when I know I'm really not that it had me wondering if there was a good reason they thought they had to play it up.  Sometimes, an impartial opinion is very helpful.

I agree that it's more important to focus on giving and receiving pleasure than how you look.  My concerns focus more on a girl not getting turned on with a larger guy or not getting off on a smaller endowment.  Ego is an issue, but a secondary one.  

As for being clean, I shower once a day whether I need it or not and even splash on a little cologne, so I suppose I'm okay in that area.  

Thanks again for your reply.  You sound like exactly the sort of girl, and exactly the sort of attitude, I've been looking for.  I can see why you're so highly regarded.

Ginger girl12821 reads

I agree with ashley. I well built solid man even with a belly is much more preferable to a very thin or small man. I am a strapping girl though and larger men just do it for me. as far a s a belly goes sometimes it really helps when riding cowgirl as it adds some extra clitoral stimulation too. Oh and your penis size is fine :) I also agree with Ashley about the enthusiasm level...that and a sense of humour makes me just melt no matter what your size. I do know of some roviders that really LOVE and prefer big men. Mistress M is one of them and if you love a really good FBSM or dominance session then she is the girl for you.

four reviews(3 nines and a seven) it would seem that you're pretty happy with the response that you have gotten from these four different ladies. Ultimately you are donating to be pleased and the lady (if she is a good provider) is going to focus on that, your pleasure.

Having said that, there are plenty of ladies who enjoy this work tremendously and get off as much as their clients do. I have almost always tried to please as much as to be pleased in my sessions, and yes, like most things in life, physical chemistry between people does make a difference. But I wouldn't spend a lot of time self analyzing yourself, find the ladies that you enjoy being with and who enjoy your company and really appreciate your hard earned donations. MfSD.

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