I get your point now . I can tell you have a few years on 'ya , so i will just say that you shoulda known that the married chick was going to pull some crap like that . I'm 45 and I woulda seen that coming . Maybe in 3 months , maybe 6 or a year , but just inevitable for sure . Like your honesty, and being able to write structured paragraphs , spelling and correct grammar - I am a word Nazi ! Reading beteewn the lines ..............Be careful for " Ive fallen for a provider and can't get up ! " - It's screaming at me from this end of the keyboard my man .