The BEST of both worlds!

You said it!

I agree, so why can a GFE not be an Domina?  

This is not a question we will be able to answer because I think the majority have evolved to understand they go hand & hand.  I have never been a traditional Mistress & am happy to say I am not aspiring to be a mind control freak.  Boring...

Fun is when you have no limits & can safely combined all aspects of adult play!

I started off as a companion just over 2 years ago and as you can see from my reviews I a very sensual and passionate person myself but as I started to learn more about the industry I've been gradually venturing over to the Dom side of things. Since I moved into my new incall roughly 6 months ago, the first thing my returning companion gents see is a wall full of whips, ropes and blindfolds and as I explain the majority say " you, a dom, noway .... your too sweet" but read my recent review. Just because I'm a sweet person doesn't mean I wont put you on your knees, slip a blindfold on you and .......

Some days I feel like being a companion , Some days a Dom and some days all I want to do is massages. So what if I mix them up here and there .... that doesn't make me not a Dom just "thee Ultimate Companion"  lol .... seriously thou, my gents love that one day they can come for a spanking and the next a relaxing sensual massage or GFE date. My guys are happy which is all that matters to me so just label me as AWESOME

 DEAR TER : please start an AWESOME section for us ladies who can do it all ...Thank you

The problem comes from the ones who don't.  The women who are domme's but don't offer anything more sensual than that.  I think they have a fear of people thinking they are escorts, so they go out of their way to try to make as big a differentiation as possible.  The thought process is: not only don't they offer romantic services, but anyone who would is just a hooker and not a real domina at all.

I suspect it comes from some form of professional self preservation.  It's also possible that it comes a little bit from having the impression that they are looked down on and wanting someone that they can be superior to.  The bullied kid finding someone else to bully.

And, of course, this is just my own guess and a massive generalization.  There are plenty of domina's who don't offer sexual services who have no problem with others who do.  But I am speaking about the ones who really vocally challenge any domina who is also GFE.

One of the best hobby expereiences involved a mistress who, amoung othet things, totally used me as an object to please herself.  It was really a thrill and the combination of those two worlds made it feel so much more like a "real life" dom/sub experience.

After a few years playing in the BDSM realm, I've come to the conclusion that, for better or worse, there's a pecking order in the Domme world:

1. Domme's who believe any sort of sexual contact is forbidden and not BDSM. Most, not all, Pro Domme's, particularly if they work in a professional dungeon, fall into this category.

2. Domme's who will grant a sub release by using their hand.

3. Domme's who combine a complete escort/GFE experience in a BDSM atmosphere.

Different strokes for different folks.

When I dom there are no guarantees....only what I want- If you are lucky you might get what you need

I am a more sensual type of domina but I also offer strict sessions....
You may tell me your desires and interests but in the end when the sessions begins there is no guaranteed contact...

Yes, I also offer GFE contact on my escorting site....but honestly anyone who doms knows that as you connect and reconnect with your subbie, your piggy, your slut there is something that grows that goes beyond GFE when you have a good pet. If you want to give your lil' bitch some affection because they earn it, well by all means that is your choice because YOU ARE IN CHARGE...

I think pay doms who act as if that is repulsive are not really in tune that energy of each individual session changes,  blanket rules shouldn't apply so half-ass doms can phone it in...

people can do what they want.
I have no problem with girls who provide GFE. I love escorts However, while I have no delusions or qualms that I am a sex worker, that people get off to BDSM, I personally do not provide sex or fluid exchange (unless I'm spitting on someone, lol - make that no *direct* fluid exchange). It's just not for me. But I will provide a kick ass, sizzling hot Domme session.

I think perhaps that some people, Dommes and subs, feel that an escort who also provides some kink on the side or on top, is most likey not be as honed in and deeply focused on the many, many aspects of BDSM fetishes. Many Dommes take it all quite serious and arduously study the psychology, practice and perfect techniques, build dungeons, invest in loads of quality equipment, toys, wardrobe, special furniture, attend workshops, read books, devote themselves to understanding and mastering BDSM on a pretty serious level...

So perhaps they feel that it's just "not fair" when an escort, who hasn't laboriously devoted herself to being a Pro Domme, just picks up a cheap whip from the novelty shop. Lol. (No offense to cheap whips - I myself have several hanging along side my over priced whips Maybe they feel like, while they have a self-made masters degree in BDSM, other people who didn't get that degree are taking their work that they invested so much in... I, personally, don't care but I think that may be how some people feel...
I think everything has it's place and am glad kinky escorts are filling the niche for guys who want that

If anyone ever wants a double time session with the best of both worlds, am not opposed to working in tandom with strippers or escorts
I've actually done sessions before where we called an escort to join... though, not for sex - just to humiliate him in front of her, heheh.