San Diego
Yes And Yes. If you go on wednesdays or saturday nights the one in valley center requires you to have a female with you. last year they had fun pool parties sundays when single guys could go. The one that is downtown off the 15 has single guys but I was a bit overwhelmed as everytime my date left my side I literally got swarmed by horny young military guys looking for a gang bang...I personally like to concentrate on just one or two men at a time and prefer it if I have another women helping out 
the valley center one has a really great atmosphere with pool, sauna jacuzzi and disco dance floor. pool table and buffet as well as lots of places to get your groove on....definately check it out.
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Yes And Yes. If you go on wednesdays or saturday nights the one in valley center requires you to have a female with you. last year they had fun pool parties sundays when single guys could go. The one that is downtown off the 15 has single guys but I was a bit overwhelmed as everytime my date left my side I literally got swarmed by horny young military guys looking for a gang bang...I personally like to concentrate on just one or two men at a time and prefer it if I have another women helping out
the valley center one has a really great atmosphere with pool, sauna jacuzzi and disco dance floor. pool table and buffet as well as lots of places to get your groove on....definately check it out.
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there are two thads locations and one does not allow single men and is far better than the other thads (there seemed to be a bit of confusion on that part)...also if you go to the couples thads and hook up with some nice people you can get the invite to all of the better clubs that are alot more fun and are regulated male to female so it isn't so scary for the ladies. I do sometimes take a client to them but I like to be VERY comfortable with who I swing with and make sure that they can keep up before I take them 
. I have also done a lifestyle vacation or two with a client and that was the best. five days and 6 nights of pure pleasure. I highely reccomend that hobbyists experience these swing experiences with their favorite provider(s) or someone else that they know that is already somewhat familiar with the scene if you haven't been before. It makes it so much more fun that way
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