Sparks are a must fireworks are what I am seeking as well!
I've been playing on both sides of the Vanilla aisle for quite a few years now. (meaning I've enjoyed both BDSM sessions as well as hobby sessions). I've found one thing is true of both. The connection you share with either a provider or a domme has to click, at least for me.
I guess I'm sort of an authenticity freak with a well developed 'faking it' radar. I never blame a gal for faking it. I just also never call her back. There are some pretty amazing gals who are pretty amazing at making me feel great even when I know they're not having as much fun as it seems. But there is something special about someone who's really into it.
This may actually be more true in BDSM sessions. I'm not a masochist. I enjoy power exchange and intense T&D. I like a mistress who is close. Who gets into my psyche and has a good time fucking with me. There is a connection that can be created in these situations that is real. That;s what I seek.
Curious what others think.
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Sparks are a must fireworks are what I am seeking as well!
I can appreciate a good power exchange that involves both hobby and BDSM sessions. Sadly I find few hobbyist who enjoy dabbling in the intense rush of BDSM Energy Exchange Play.
Energy Exchange so connects with your primal nature, it's icing on the cake for me. However, I've been extremely blessed to meet amazing creative, tantric, intense, succulent hobbyists.
But you know the old saying, Smart is Sexy.
Serene
Southern California Leather Woman 2010
And you Ms.Serene are sooo Sexy!
Authenticity is an absolute must ! Nothing worse than a provider pretending to be into it, pretending to be dominant.
Connection is also super important!
Great post!
I find this so interesting. I have been learning about BDSM just this year. I really like the submissive side. Is so different. I like dominant men.
And this is why a good phone consultation is important. I won't see someone who I don't feel is on the same page with me and who has realistic expectations. You'd be surprised how many people write/call saying they are "sure" that they want to be my slave and undergo ongoing sessions/training. One step at a time people!
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