: Stick w/ eros both Escort and BDSMand just keep reworking your ads... : Discussion in BDSM, posted by ClairJordan

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Stick w/ eros both Escort and BDSMand just keep reworking your ads...

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posted 11 years ago

I am a hybrid as well: love the companionship and sensuality of being an escort but also like to be in charge in the bedroom..but I don't inflict pain or humilation, so I don't consider myself a true Dom.

I started combining the two about a year and a half ago and it's taken me a while to get the wording right. Now I have a wonderful niche where I see very successful, generous guys who simply want me to take the lead.
Business cities such as Chicago and NYC are loeaded with them.
The eros BDSM ads are cheap and stay up the whole month.
Figure out how to be very specific about what you are into and don't let anyone bribe or push you into something you are not comfortable with.

As I told the guy I dated that started me on this path:

"Just stick with the two things you're good at, I'll handle everything else."

"What am I good at?'

"F@#king and making money!"

All the best!
Clair Jordan

Related Link: http://www.courtingclair.com

Theperfectmassage11 years ago5049 reads

I'm a very dominant female looking to get into more domination than escorting..

I was not really sure where to find my clients or let them know that this is a possibility with me.. I decided to advertise on backpage and got nothing but a bunch of board trolls and game players.. I advertised on Eros too but nothing.. I've added Information on my web-site but I'm not getting any bites.. any suggestions would be very helpful.. Thank-you very much!!! Lucky, xO

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QueenBia11 years ago3337 reads

Are you a life-style player?

Have you tried any non pro sites, or attempted to google your ? 1st?

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Theperfectmassage11 years ago3427 reads

Re: Are you a life-style player?

No..
I use to dance and all of my clients use to take me into the champagne room and have me dominant them whether it be humiliating them verbally or mentally emotionally physically or financially.. Kicking them in the nuts and making them worship my shoe's down to my entire body and doing alot of golden showers and even a brown shower.. I also did some strap on play with a couple of my clients.. That's the most that I have done.. I don't have all the gear such as all the latex and the whips and the chains and the outfits because I wanted to see if it was worth getting into financially for me before spending all of this money..

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QueenBia11 years ago2713 reads

I would suggest...

Start advertising on the real BDSM sites.

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Theperfectmassage11 years ago4023 reads

Thank-you Madame Patricia (Eom)

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MistressKiley11 years ago2987 reads

There are a ton of sites where you can

do a banner exchange. Google FemDom or Dominatrix and you will find all kinds of sites where you can place your banner.

Create a website, there are free places to do this, just be careful of the pics you post, the free places can and will shut you down if they find your pics offensive in some way. Eros has a BDSM advertising area that isn't too expensive, and BackPage usually has a Domination/Fetish area for ads as well.

You will get a lot of wankers, but turn on your Dominant self and shut them down. Make sure you are familiar with the BDSM lingo, and if you are only wanting to do certain things, make sure you put those things in your advertising, otherwise you may get asked for things you don't do, don't like, don't know how to do or aren't interested in.

It takes a while to get to the good ones, but once you find one or two, you will see it is all worthwhile