BDSM

Very interesting. In fact, I've done it, or something very close...
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I have a sugarbaby who's 24 -- I'm over 60.  I introduced her to bdsm, but after a few sessions, she decided she wanted me to play out her fantasies.  Typically, she plays a pre-pubescent girl; she gets in the bed and pretends she is asleep.  I then come and start looking at her and whispering how I'd like to touch her.  One thing leads to another and I get under the sheets.  HEr legs are slightly spread and I have to spread them more.  She continues to sleep as I get on top.  When I put my cock in her, she wakes up and begins to protest, and I cover her mouth.  Then I start with the dirty talk, telling her that she's just a whore and wants to get fucked, and that this will be our little secret.  She'll whisper that she's afraid Mommy will hear, and I'll slap her face and tell her to keep fucking.  She'll beg me not to tell anyone, and I'll tell her that everyone knows already that she's a whore, that all the boys know she likes to fuck, but that she can only be my whore, Daddy's whore.....

You wouldn't believe how she gets off on it.
You also wouldn't believe how many women out there, young and older, love to get tied up, slapped around and fucked....

But yes, the most important thing is that it is consensual fun between consenting adults who have discussed it all in advance.

"Daddy's little girl"

You are sleeping with some skimpy nightgown on. Daddy is looking for his little girl to talk about her GPA. Seeing that you are sleeping, I am about to turn around. But the moonlight through the window highlights how much of a woman you have become. Suddenly, daddy starts having a hard on. Mommy is on business trip and won't be back for another week. Daddy has been horny because of mom being away. Slowly I approach your bed and fantasizing how lovely your body would feel and how sweet your pussy would taste like. I place my hand on your leg and start to kiss down on your neck. The smell of your shampoo turns me on even more. My hand gradually spreading your legs apart and gently rubbing on your sweet kitty. You let out a soft moan and your body reacts a little to the erotic sensation. My lips kiss around your breasts while I press my finger further into your kitty. Your pussy is getting wet as I am sucking and licking on your nipples. Your pussy is getting really wet and the bed sheet is soaking it up. By now, you are getting really hot and bothered and start to wake up. I realize that you may overreact. I cover your mouth with one hand and I thrust my thick hard cock all the way into your tight wet pussy. You try to scream, but it gets muffled by daddy's hand. You are overwhelmed with confusion, excitement, shame, lust, and other emotions. All you can feel is daddy's big fat cock pounding on your dripping wet pussy. Other than the conflict of emotions, you are also bewildered by the pain and pleasure of your little pussy being stretched out by daddy's thick cock. You want more and more, but the idea of taboo really startles you. You keep saying, "Daddy, no! Daddy, stop it!" I whisper into your ear, "Be daddy's good little girl. I can tell that you want daddy's cock. You like how daddy's cock sliding in and out of your pussy. Don't lie. You want daddy to pound on your pussy harder and faster?" You look at me intensely and silently say yes.

how is this disturbing?

MANY D/s do this fantasy all the time...

it is about the power role not like your really fucking your REAL dad!!! come on now

There are just a few things that, at least for me, for me cross the line between healthy fantasy and disturbing.  The vivid nature of your description just completely skeved me out.

Rocket Weiner3489 reads

That is rather sick and disturbing.  I have seen how that very behavior has wrecked some young girls lives.  There is fantasy and then there is sick.  Sorry but I have to agree this crosses the sick line rather well.

I  figured the BDSM board would be more receptive, I of course do not do this role play in the LITERAL sense but as a submissive serving her "daddy" which is what MANY subs call their doms

and he is in control of me and making me please him

that is the nature I meant this... just as role play


no where did I even SUGGEST that the role play involved a underage person BTW

Well I for one found the story highly erotic, so thanks for sharing Caitlyn.  It isn't a fantasy that I normally have, but I can see the attraction to it (particularly the power exchange) and I would probably really enjoy role-playing it with someone that was into it.

I'm actually a bit surprised and disappointed at the attitudes of the people lashing out at Caitlyn, particularly on this board where I'm sure most of us have had to deal with the social stigma of being a "sexual deviant" in the eyes of most "normal" people.  Having been interested in BDSM for as long as I can remember I have had to deal with people's misperceptions of me and my fetishes for longer than I care to remember.  As a result I tend not to judge other people's kinks as long as play is consensual.  IMHO, anything done between two consenting adults (note the two key words here - "consenting" and "adults") is to me all just part of the wonderful, complex nature of human sexuality.  There are many kinks that I am just not into but if you are then hey, knock yourself out and have a great time!

I find it interesting how everyone seems to have a line or boundary that they think should not be crossed, and everything on one side is okay while everything on the other is "sick" or "disturbing"???  It's kind of like being at a comedy show and seeing someone laughing along while the comedian makes fun of everyone else, but then once the comedian hits on a sensitive topic to him, he gets upset.  Really?  The bottom line for me is this - what makes any of you think you have the right to decide for the rest of us what is okay for us to do with another willing participant?  If we give in to that line of thinking then really we should just go to the other extreme and have sex only for procreation, through a hole in a sheet!

Some people are unable to separate the fantasy and power exchange aspects of Caitlyn's story with actual reality, which is of course something entirely different.  Why does one have to translate into the other?  Just because I like to tie up a consenting girl and have her submit to me sexually, that doesn't mean I would *ever* do that to an unwilling participant in real life!  Do you realize how many women have rape fantasies?  Do you think they would ever want to actually *be* raped?  In fact, according to several surveys done between 1973 and 2008, an average of about 4 in 10 women admit to having these fantasies.  Does that make them sick or degenerates?  Of course not.  So how is that different from any other fantasy people might having, including the "daddy" fantasy?

Anyway, I've said more than my two cents on this.  I have linked an interesting article from Psychology Today that talks about rape fantasies and the psychology of fantasies in general.  Some of you more close-minded folks should really take a few minutes to read it.

Peace out, and live and let live.

admit I also have the rape fantasy, but would NEVER truly want to be raped for REAL.

I am afraid if I fess to that too, I will be burned at the stake lol

We are all on this site because we enjoy something that's taboo.  It's hypocritical to shun someone because they have a different taboo interest than you do.  

There is nothing wrong with exploring the taboo in your fantasy life.  It's a healthy alternative to actually violating the taboo.

I'd much rather someone who has a predilection towards minors explore that with young looking escorts, rather than actually going after a minor.

While I am against criticizing the fantasies of others, I do understand not wanting to read something that you might find disturbing.  So a little warning should solve the issue.

You feel free to post whatever fantasy you like, but perhaps you should start with "This fantasy contains these taboo topics.  If those offend you, then don't read it."

On a website where "Sugar Daddies" routinely discuss their relationships with their
"Sugar Babies" and where a woman who advertises that she "just turned 18", "is barely 21" or "is brand new to this" is glommed on by every male in her vicinity within a very short period of time, you guys are going to be squicked by this fantasy exploration of a very hot  sexual encounter between two adults where one is considered "Daddy"???

And in a forum where I would imagine many of you would have no trouble hiring a Domme for a
"Mommy/son" roleplay where "Mommy" teaches "son" what his penis is used for you  are saying "ewwwwwwww"??

Really??

Age players have some of the most intense power exchanges of all BDSM relationships. While what Caitlyn writes about is simply a sexual encounter, the giving and taking of control in this role play can be incredible and the sex can be simply mind-blowing, but, of course, you really do have to be an adult to appreciate and understand it. It isn't about incest, it isn't about pedophilia, it is all about creating (or even recreating) a taboo experience between two people who know what they are doing.  I lived in a Daddy/little girl relationship for three years, and it was one of the most nurturing relationships I have ever been in...fortunately for my Daddy, I grew up into a Domme, and since he switches, he's happy ;)

Caitlyn, I think this is HOT !!! This is one of my absolute favorite roleplay scenes to create as a submissive, and I have been lucky enough to have a "Mommy/Daddy/little girl" scene once or twice, waaaay hot !!  Thanks for sharing it, started my day off really nicely :)

K

Well-said. And very good points about hypocrisy.

And I just LOVE the word "squicked"!

am glad someone understands my meaning and where I was coming from :(

I certainly did NOT mean it as real incest etc...

You have more supporters than you think. You provided an interesting topic of discussion within our group, and the overwhelming consensus is that role play allows one to explore the forbidden, the taboo. Personally, I'm a bit fan of rape/force fantasies, but does that mean that I actually want to be raped? Definitely not! That's what make these scenes so alluring...the forbidden. I could get all Freudian, but I think that would invite more negative commentary, and I believe that we should be accepting of each other's kinks. Thanks for the post; we find it fascinating and quite arousing:)

Back to trying to mooch internet because my whole area of NYC is out of power and internet. Carry on!

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I know what you mean its just a FANTASY, don't pay any mind to the narrow minded people! I think both of your stories were pretty erotic.

Thank you for being the voice of reason.  Never expected to see such heavy judgment surrounding a FANTASY on a board supposedly full of kinky pervs.

R

and  daddy sneaking into her bedroom at night,and not to wake up mommy. Which sounds like and episode Law and Order SVU. Her story sounds like high school

Vividly exploring what was going through the mind of the two participants, who were in fact father daughter.  Fantasy is one thing.  It wasnt written that way.  That writeup was nasty.  There has to be a line somewhere, and for me that crossed it.  Nothing hypocritical here - I have every right to my opinion.

She didn't ask "Hey, what do you all think of this fantasy?"  She asked if there was anyone who shared her interest.  If you don't that's fine.  No one is forcing you to.  

If someone posts "I am looking for a BBW", so you chime in by stating your opinion that you think BBW's are disgusting and you prefer spinners?  

If the topic offends you, then move on to another.  But this is not the place to shun someone for their fantasies.

I have a sugarbaby who's 24 -- I'm over 60.  I introduced her to bdsm, but after a few sessions, she decided she wanted me to play out her fantasies.  Typically, she plays a pre-pubescent girl; she gets in the bed and pretends she is asleep.  I then come and start looking at her and whispering how I'd like to touch her.  One thing leads to another and I get under the sheets.  HEr legs are slightly spread and I have to spread them more.  She continues to sleep as I get on top.  When I put my cock in her, she wakes up and begins to protest, and I cover her mouth.  Then I start with the dirty talk, telling her that she's just a whore and wants to get fucked, and that this will be our little secret.  She'll whisper that she's afraid Mommy will hear, and I'll slap her face and tell her to keep fucking.  She'll beg me not to tell anyone, and I'll tell her that everyone knows already that she's a whore, that all the boys know she likes to fuck, but that she can only be my whore, Daddy's whore.....

You wouldn't believe how she gets off on it.
You also wouldn't believe how many women out there, young and older, love to get tied up, slapped around and fucked....

But yes, the most important thing is that it is consensual fun between consenting adults who have discussed it all in advance.

It started as a favorite while I was web camming, it has carried over to my real time submissive sessions.

This is a role play.  Your submissive is a safe space to explore all those taboo fantasies you cannot actually do in real life.  That is why we call it "Role Play".

All the incest role play, all the raciest role play (yes, me being a Southern Belle taking her black slave), all the Boss/secretary inversions (because you aren't really supposed to do that in real life either) is very delicious to explore.  You find a good partner that can suspend the reality for you (and while - okay - I am no relation to you at all except being your submissive) the taboo of being really very bad, doing the unmentionable naughty deed satisfies you.

We all have our little niche deal that gets us off.  No judgements.  If you are judging humanity, you have no time to love it and life is short.

Are we now on this board going to ban the enema lovers? How about the human toilets? What about the cutters?  Are we taking a pole of Spanko's that don't think they are part of the BDSM crowd?  There is a BIG buffet of what appeals to people.  I have hard limits on some play that I do not wish to explore.  That doesn't make that play wrong nor bad.

Any gentlemen out there that want to explore this, please do, with gusto.

~Ann

lilli3914 reads

the Father/daughter dynamic is a fascinating relationship on many levels, and has many similarities with D/s or even M/s dynamics. now personally i do not care for role play of ANY kind, simply because i am not one who wishes to suspend reality in my relationships, sexual or otherwise. as a naturally submissive woman however, i tend to be exposed to the darker and less socially palatable sides of a man's nature, and with me there is never any judgment. and of course i harbor some perverted thoughts and desires of my own, but i doubt i would ever share them on TER based on the responses to this simple (and very common) roleplay fantasy.

i will say that my Husband/Master is very much a Father figure, and that is actually how i refer to him...not as a playful Daddy/little girl dynamic as it is known in BDSM circles, but in a very natural, simplistic, "this is just who we are" way. at a lifestyle function years ago, a woman overheard my calling my Husband Daddy, and expressed disgust. now this is an environment where people throw around the Daddy title like used condoms, lol...and she was not disturbed by any of them. i pointed this out to her and asked her what made us different. her response: "there's just something about your tone when you say it, that's just..just...too REAL." we were amused. because she was right...for us it is very real. and a great many people will always find that taboo. oh well.



We all have done some form of this whether it be daddy/little girl or mommy/baby scene. There are some young women, that crave the admiration, touch, and desire of an older man ravishing there bodies. Some mature women love to have a young buck that they can teach, to be dirty, naughty boys, that crave the nurturing that an older women gives. The idea that their babies wait patiently for the opportunity to ride their mommy's with the endurance of a horse is an orgasm.  Express your fantasy sweetie, we are all consenting adults on here. I've  had a few adult babies, and it's very erotic. The process of showing affection while bathing, dressing and breast feeding my baby, then rocking them in my arms while their face is nestled in my bosom gets me wet. I then begin to gently trail my hands down and stroke them. They open their eyes a little startled and aroused, and they ask "what are you doing mommy?" I tell them "Shhhh. Mommy is going to teach you a new game tonight."

BrandyLou3013 reads

As a submissive, I have done the Daddy/daughter and forced sex fantasies. I love doing it And have a ton of fun while doing it! I won't play anyone under the age of consent, so my clients like it and I don't get creeped out. And if there's any tearing of clothes, then it's clothes the client bought.

This is a forum where we can express ourselves freely and if you don't like the topic, then perhaps you should just skip to the next topic. Really, I don't do scat play, but I'm not going to belittle someone who does and try to make them feel bad about the things they happen to like. That's just so not nice people.

and that is all it is.. ROLEPLAY...

I do not get why on the BDSM board people freak out.

Did anyone ever once stop and think.."better he pay someone to fulfill his fantasy then for him to do it in real life?"

Really people....

Life is too stressful as it is, lets worry more about reality then someones fantasy..

I for one love role-play and many fetishes..I NEVER judge soeone on what they like..I am not perfect so how can I judge someone else?



Fantasy is just that. Fantasy. Many women have the rape fantasy. It is a giving up of sorts and letting a man or men take over in every way. In our mind though we are letting go. Obviously if it were real rape different thoughts and emotions would be going on.

I have had guys ask me to play "mommy" and have caught them playing with themselves and then had to teach them a lesson. To each their own. I am not into child pornography of any kind. And her fantasy was sexy once you see it for what it is. I understand at first glance it might be a bit shocking but fantasy is healthy. Many things are taboo. Again, to each their own.

 And everyone has grown up differently. I am Greek and I was introduced to topless and nude beaches at a young age. Nudity is nothing to me. I grew up with my mom getting ready in the morning in her bra, lol. I too get ready now in my bra and panties or in the nude! My father though was always treated with respect and we were modest around him. I recall at dinner time growing up, my mother would serve him first and if we were having steak he would get the best cut. Little things that stuck along the way. ;-)

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